IOI and SOI: What They are and How to Use Them to Seduce Beautiful Women
by The proper way to interpret, escalate and use for our benefit the indicators of interests that women send to us in the process of attraction and seduction as well as the way to use the Statement of interest in our behalf to close the deal.
We most understand seduction as a process where you are NOT manipulating to the other person, but collaborating with her to both of you get what you want, which is a mutual pleasant interaction, this said, we as men should know that we are the “dominant” part of the equation, this doesn´t mean aggressive like i had said in other occasions, this means to be decisive, focused, and act, we like it or not, and maybe more because of society than genes, women are the passive or at least diplomatic part, so they are not gonna tell us right away if they are interested in us or not, not with words at least, but don´t worry, woman are very cleaver, they have other ways to tell you if they are interested, this is what we call IOI´s or Indicators of interest, when you are doing something right, she send an IOI, this is her way of telling, “You are doing good, keep going” IOI´s are very non-intrusive way, usually body language moves, some classic examples of IOI´s are:
Smile
plays with her hair
She touch your hand, arm or elbow
She incline her body towards you
Touch your foot with the tip of her shoe
Laughs a lot of your jokes even if they´re not that funny
agrees with you a lot
etc…
This are just some of them, like you can see, most of them are really well disguised, and can be interpreted in the wrong way, so you gotta be careful with this in other to not play your cards too fast, however they are good indicators on how are u doing, some Pick up artist agree that with tree sure fire IOI´s the girl is ready to be kissed, i don´t quite agree with this cause i think that despite of other Pick up artists say, every girl is different, so you have to calibrate to see how the interaction is going, anyway, this is a guide line that would help you see where are you standing.
About the SOI´s
SOI´s are our equivalent to the IOI´s, we can send IOI´s as well, and girls can send SOI´s but usually things would go the way “Girls IOI, Boys SOI” at least for the most part, SOI stands for Statement of intent, this is a way to put clear what are you looking for with this girl, even when the connotation of the SOI´s are most of the time sexual, I’m gonna go smooth on this cause of the page policy about content, but i think you are gonna get a pretty clear idea about what I’m talking, an SOI is like putting the cards on the table for the gir, and they are mostly verbal like “after you finish your drink let´s go to my apartment, I have a bottle cap collection to show you in my bed room… if you know what i mean” or stuff like that, depends on you and your confidence as well as how has being the interaction till that pint if you wanna drop it more or less aggressive, this are just some othere skills and weapons you can add to your Pick up arsenal.
Learn how to read IOI´s, and how to throw SOI´s effectively and you are on the other side man! Of course, there is still much more to learn and do, is worth it to seduce all the ladies you want right? or the love of your life if your prefer.
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