Is He or She Cheating?

If you are one of the many people that have suspicion that your significant other is cheating on you, then you are reading the perfect article! In this article I will go over a cheaters actions, their drawbacks, your advantages, and the reasons for why they take certain actions to get away with infidelity. Please keep in mind while reading this article that even if you do suspect any of these circumstances by no means does that mean that your partner is cheating, and for further reference it is recommended you see an appropriate counselor, for those types of issues.

First Thing’s First: That Gut Feeling

Many people have claimed, that they just knew that there partner was being unfaithful. When a person has this gut type of feeling that their partner is cheating there is obviously reason to feel that way, which does not always mean that the person is being unfaithful. For instance; a woman may have had a horrible past experience with a cheating partner, and in fear of the recent partner commiting an unfaithful act, she might start to lose trust and get a gut feeling that this new partner is cheating just because of a past partners choices (when in actuality the new partner is being loyal).

Second: Those Mysterious Phone Calls

So your at home, his/her cell phone rings, your partner is in the shower and you pick the call up. Its a phone number you have never seen before, and when you answer with hello, they hang up. Sound familiar?

Use the cell phone to your advantage, most cell phone bills come with a complete listing of every phone call that was outgoing and incoming, each call will also show the amount of time spent on that call. Most cheaters will spend an increasing amount of time on certain calls, so look for long phone calls.

Another thing to look out for is when they get in a call when they are spending time with you, do they rush up to go to the bathroom or another room to talk? Do they say, “Oh its my job baby?”, well if thats the case then keep your eyes open, you might have a cheater!