If you have come this far, to read my article, then you do have the assumption that your lover may be cheating on you! Have you two been dating 3-6 months, longer? Are you married? What kind of relationship do you have with your partner? Is it a carefree relationship, is it a tight knit relationship, or is it a loveless relationship? There are all sorts of relationships, and this article is just based on those who claim to be in a ‘’serious” relationship.

Okay so your love may be cheating on you, how do you know? There are countless ways of telling about this rotten tale. Don’t just come out and say ”Oh, I think you’re cheating on me”.. YOU MUST NEVER stipulate that to your partner. In fact if you WANT proof, you gotta find the proof! Here are a few pointers, but don’t take my word for it, as some signs may just be how your partner really is. Or he/she just may be overly busy.

- They don’t call you anymore (Other indicator of other things: could be stressed and overworked and trying to keep you uninvolved)

-They comment other men/women about how good they look and never you (A person always loves being commented from their lover right?)

-They run into the other room, to answer the phone, hide their cell bill, credit card bill, or when they answer the cell/phone all you hear is ”yup, maybe, or nope”. Mysterious phantom calls (hang ups when you answer or dead silence)

-They shut off the computer screen when you walk into the room, or click off onto another screen

-They accuse you of cheating! The guilty ALWAYS accuse!

-They are less interested in you, less sex, more sex, different sexual positions after several months of dating, and suddenly changes up the lingo; without any explanation or weird requests.

-They are ”never home” ”Hard /impossible to get a hold of”. Or when you call them once, they don’t answer. 2nd time you go to call them their cell/phone is turned off.

-They you find lipstick, sparkles, not ”your” perfume/cologn on their clothing,

-They make up excuses

-They get angry real fast or defensive (could be stress too)

-They never tell you that they love you, or love you anymore

-They never allow you over or sleep over, or never want to sleep over

-They claim they are working long hours… No one works 13 hour shifts everyday in the following jobs (Restaurants, Factories unless it is shift work, Sales of any kind, that includes Marketing. Retail, )

-They stop buying you gifts, never buy gifts or start buying you gifts. (Obessive wise)

-They they stop exchanging their feelings with you

-They seem to ignore you, avoid you, push you away

-They Keep your relationship a secret such as never placing that they are in a ”realtionship” w/ you on Face-book or any other ”Social site”, keeping it a secret from onlookers. As they may have a certain female/male lover on the site.

-They are never affectionate w/ you in public, or stop being affectionate w/ you in public, for fear of being spotted.

-You find receipts of gifts you never received. Such as jewelry, as well as other expensive gifts

-The milage on the car increases daily, w/out explanation or a phony excuse (Made daily now)

- You find different colored hairs on the passenger’s seat of the car

-  You smell the sex on them when you g down on them

- Your gut instinct tell you, that they could be cheating

- You find their profile on a dating website, or find photographs of the cheating lover w/ another.

There are hundreds of ways of tell-tale signs of cheating!

How to deal w/ it? What do you do? How do you catch the buggers red-handed. Here are a few hints!

 1- set up a hidden camera in the home, this COULD work..

2- Get a GPS tracking system for the car. If you know where they work, the computer records ”live” where they are heading.

3- Have a friend play ”decoy”( ask your friend to ask your lover’s phone number or see if your lover hands out their cell number and see if your lover really falls into the pit! Make sure your lover don’t know this person..(Obviously)

4- Have a friend (unknown to the lover) follow him/her

5- have their texts messages forwarded to your cell phone…. TRUST ME THIS WORKS!

6- If followed, have pictures taken of him/her w/ another lover, and when the time comes, show your lover the pictures.

7- DON’T hire a P.I they are far too expensive unless they are your last resource, or if you want to take matters into court, but you really need to discover REAL proof before you do hire one.

8- Set up a false profile on the dating site you discover him/ her on. THIS ONE WORKS CLEAN TOO!

9- Tell them you are going to see a distant relative for a long weekend. Stay at a local hotel, and go home… THIS WORKS TOO! That is if the buggers are there!

AGAIN DON’T take my wording for it, but if you are experiencing many of these signs; make sure you have full proof that your lover is actually cheating on you. If you’re just insecure, then why are you w/ him /her?