Is He/She Cheating?
by About a cheating spouse.
If you have come this far, to read my article, then you do have the assumption that your lover may be cheating on you! Have you two been dating 3-6 months, longer? Are you married? What kind of relationship do you have with your partner? Is it a carefree relationship, is it a tight knit relationship, or is it a loveless relationship? There are all sorts of relationships, and this article is just based on those who claim to be in a ‘’serious” relationship.
Okay so your love may be cheating on you, how do you know? There are countless ways of telling about this rotten tale. Don’t just come out and say ”Oh, I think you’re cheating on me”.. YOU MUST NEVER stipulate that to your partner. In fact if you WANT proof, you gotta find the proof! Here are a few pointers, but don’t take my word for it, as some signs may just be how your partner really is. Or he/she just may be overly busy.
- They don’t call you anymore (Other indicator of other things: could be stressed and overworked and trying to keep you uninvolved)
-They comment other men/women about how good they look and never you (A person always loves being commented from their lover right?)
-They run into the other room, to answer the phone, hide their cell bill, credit card bill, or when they answer the cell/phone all you hear is ”yup, maybe, or nope”. Mysterious phantom calls (hang ups when you answer or dead silence)
-They shut off the computer screen when you walk into the room, or click off onto another screen
-They accuse you of cheating! The guilty ALWAYS accuse!
-They are less interested in you, less sex, more sex, different sexual positions after several months of dating, and suddenly changes up the lingo; without any explanation or weird requests.
-They are ”never home” ”Hard /impossible to get a hold of”. Or when you call them once, they don’t answer. 2nd time you go to call them their cell/phone is turned off.
-They you find lipstick, sparkles, not ”your” perfume/cologn on their clothing,
-They make up excuses
-They get angry real fast or defensive (could be stress too)
-They never tell you that they love you, or love you anymore
-They never allow you over or sleep over, or never want to sleep over
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Post CommentDebra.
On January 26, 2009 at 4:06 am
Oh, my husband isn’t cheating, we’ve been together going-on 19-years. I came to read your article because your in my friends box and I thought it was a well written and fascinating piece of work, although, it does sound just a little personal! Well done, Annette.
God bless.
alc
On August 7, 2009 at 12:15 pm
You never really no what you are getting yourself into in my opinion until you live with the person and monitor them and see how they raect!!! Nice piece!!!