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Is He/She Cheating?

About a cheating spouse.

-They claim they are working long hours… No one works 13 hour shifts everyday in the following jobs (Restaurants, Factories unless it is shift work, Sales of any kind, that includes Marketing. Retail, )

-They stop buying you gifts, never buy gifts or start buying you gifts. (Obessive wise)

-They they stop exchanging their feelings with you

-They seem to ignore you, avoid you, push you away

-They Keep your relationship a secret such as never placing that they are in a ”realtionship” w/ you on Face-book or any other ”Social site”, keeping it a secret from onlookers. As they may have a certain female/male lover on the site.

-They are never affectionate w/ you in public, or stop being affectionate w/ you in public, for fear of being spotted.

-You find receipts of gifts you never received. Such as jewelry, as well as other expensive gifts

-The milage on the car increases daily, w/out explanation or a phony excuse (Made daily now)

- You find different colored hairs on the passenger’s seat of the car

-  You smell the sex on them when you g down on them

- Your gut instinct tell you, that they could be cheating

- You find their profile on a dating website, or find photographs of the cheating lover w/ another.

There are hundreds of ways of tell-tale signs of cheating!

How to deal w/ it? What do you do? How do you catch the buggers red-handed. Here are a few hints!

 1- set up a hidden camera in the home, this COULD work..

2- Get a GPS tracking system for the car. If you know where they work, the computer records ”live” where they are heading.

3- Have a friend play ”decoy”( ask your friend to ask your lover’s phone number or see if your lover hands out their cell number and see if your lover really falls into the pit! Make sure your lover don’t know this person..(Obviously)

4- Have a friend (unknown to the lover) follow him/her

5- have their texts messages forwarded to your cell phone…. TRUST ME THIS WORKS!

6- If followed, have pictures taken of him/her w/ another lover, and when the time comes, show your lover the pictures.

7- DON’T hire a P.I they are far too expensive unless they are your last resource, or if you want to take matters into court, but you really need to discover REAL proof before you do hire one.

8- Set up a false profile on the dating site you discover him/ her on. THIS ONE WORKS CLEAN TOO!

9- Tell them you are going to see a distant relative for a long weekend. Stay at a local hotel, and go home… THIS WORKS TOO! That is if the buggers are there!

AGAIN DON’T take my wording for it, but if you are experiencing many of these signs; make sure you have full proof that your lover is actually cheating on you. If you’re just insecure, then why are you w/ him /her?

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  1. Debra.

    On January 26, 2009 at 4:06 am


    Oh, my husband isn’t cheating, we’ve been together going-on 19-years. I came to read your article because your in my friends box and I thought it was a well written and fascinating piece of work, although, it does sound just a little personal! Well done, Annette.

    God bless.

  2. alc

    On August 7, 2009 at 12:15 pm


    You never really no what you are getting yourself into in my opinion until you live with the person and monitor them and see how they raect!!! Nice piece!!!

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