Is It Love or Infatuation?

Is it love or just an infatuation? Just think about it. He is handsome,dresses great,drives a fabulous car, and knows all the right places to take you on a date! He’s your dream man come to life, and when he kisses you, your knees turn to rubber. Is this love or infatuation? It could be either, but chances are it’s infatuation. The of time is probably the surest way to find out because love grows and infatuation dies when reality sets in. If your’re on the verge of committing yourself to a relationship with a man who “curls your toes,” you might want to ask yourself the following three questions: Do you have a great deal in common? Do you have similar back grounds? Are your goals for the future compatible? My friend Traci met her man in a local club where mutual friends introduced them. Traci found her man attractive and charming and they began dating on a fairly regular basis. Her boyfriend is a high school football coach and traci is an aerobics instructor. They both keep their bodies in prime physical shape. They fell in love almost immediately,and although both were eager for a physical relationship. Traci hesitated because of a prior unhappy experience. For over a year, they continued dating, neither of them having any desire to see other people.During that time period, they really got to know each other.

They both wanted the marriage thing and eventually children after they were able to afford a house of their own. So they are engaged share a mutually satisfying sex life and know that what they feel for one another is love. My poin is Taci and her man have a lot in common. You have to make sure either of you express your interest. So either of you express interest in others? Did you rush into a sexual relationship before you were ready? If his look and /or material possessions changed, would you still care for him? If yours did, would he still care for you? You need to be willing to accept each other the way you are. The worse thing you can do is, trying to change your mate! You also have to be willing to have a relationship withou sex until you are sure you’re both ready. There is no sure-fire way to know whether it’s love or infatuation because the two emotions are often so similar,expecially in the beginning of a relationship. Nothing can ensure your happiness with the man of your choice, not even true love! However,you can save yourself unwanted heartbreak if you don’t rush headstrong into an intense relationship with a new man. Take the time to be sure. If it’s love, that special guy will still be around. If he’s not,it was only infatuation,and you’re better off without him! I know alot of women do not like being by themselves so they will settle for even a half a man. My message to you ladies is to get into yourself. Do things to build up your self-esteem. Exercise,pamper yourself. By that sexy outfit you always wanted!