Is Love Unconditional any More?

Love doesn’t expect you to change. Someone who has that pure love wouldn’t say “you need to change this or that” but say “I love you just the way you are.” Love unconditionally, pure, innocent, isn’t just love of the good things, but love of the flaws as well. A few of us girls the other night compared guys, yet it was asked what are we comparing them too. And really do looks and outer appearances become a pre-cusor to love. When did someone’s face become the pre-requisite for us to love them instead of their personality and who they really are? I mean have you ever thought “What is He (or She) doing with Her (or Him)? or think that a friend could do “better.” What is better? Other than having that unconditional love.

Often there are things a person will do that makes us not want to be with them anymore. Oddly enough it’s something far less than cheating, lying, stealing, or doing drugs or something else illegal. Some people end relationships because the sex one night was bad or because they didn’t read that often. These shouldn’t be conditions for love, it’s bigger than that! What ever happened to love conquering all?

I guess the question is, for those us looking and have expectations for love, is it eluding us because many others don’t have those ideas? Are we missing out on something because we are waiting for something else? Love isn’t something we “settle” for, but fight for, and to keep, but then again can one really lose pure unconditional love? So another major question is…Is unconditional love dead and gone?