Is the Grass Always Greener?
Why do people in a relationship wonder if there is something or someone better out there? And is there a way to stop it?
Is the grass greener on the other side? An age old statement still breaking new age menality. For example my boyfriend has a friend who has had a girlfriend for a couple years now and they live together. Now, said friend has decided to tell me that he has dreams about us having sex and how he has always had a crush on me blah blah blah…. didn’t want to know that kind of disturbing to me really considering that I have been dating my boyfriend and his best friend for two years now and he should just know better! But yet this is a classic example of how people’s minds in a relationship wonder. The three of us hang out occasionally but he doesn’t really know who I am as a person, would leaving his girlfriend that he obviously has a deep connection with and loves really be a good idea just for the possibilty of something new and not necessarily better?
Well we all know that a mans mind has a tendency to wonder around a little bit. You’ve seen, everyone has, when your in the mall and the supermodel walks by and your guy’s eyes pop out of his head! I believe that the answer to this greener pasture delema is BOREDOM! Is your man bored? Has your relationship really reached the point where he is having an imaginary realtionship with his friend’s girlfriend? And hey you women out there your guilty of the same things, but before anyone leaps the fence to another pasture think about why you love who your with? What are some of the reasons that you’ve been together for your current length of time. Write a list of all the pro’s and con’s of your relationship….and ten to one the pro’s will out weigh the con’s… if they don’t maybe it is time to embark on a new journey.
As far as the whole point of boredom behind this find new ways to spice up the romance! So chica before he reaches this point, keep the fire going by going out to Victorias Seceret and buy a scandalous set of lingerie. Accidently drop your towel while blow drying your hair when he’s around. Send a kinky little email or text to him when you know he might be in a meeting. Just subtle little things like this will gaurantee that you are the only one that your man is after! Not his friends girlfriends, or his new co-worker, or the bartender at his favorite joint. Boredom for either partner is sure to be the death of any relationship or even marriage! Its important to maintain that lust you once had for eachother.
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