Is There Freedom While Being Married

Being married seems like everything in life has to stop because a person says “I DO.” over the past few years I have had the chance to view married life. I love it but I have to tell you it is more then just the few words of “I do.” In a relations hip when a couple is starting to get to know the other person the couple experience a lot. Here is a list of different things that might be experienced threw out the boyfriend, girlfriend relationship.

1. Going out on dates
2. This consists of eating out
3. Going to dances
4. Possibly out to have a few drinks (bar)
5. Go to the movies
6. Take a morning walk
7. Romance
8. Romance consists of several things for example; Flowers are a good start to any romantic evening
9. Then there is personal affection like holding hands, kissing, hugging, etc
10. Surprising the each other when there are birthdays, holidays, remember all the special things that your partner likes
11. Excepting the person for who they are not for who they are not
12. There is getting to know each others point of view and what I mean by this is the other persons feelings, what they like and dislike,
13. Accepting who they are no matter there faults or there likes or dislikes because why would you be with the person in the first place if the person does not except the person for who they are
14. By accepting, the person for who they are is good in a relationship

Ok so next is what comes next when the two have found that they really do love each other and would not want to find anyone else. Well the next step would be engagement. The engagement give time to plan for the wedding and let family members know of the proposal. In some cases there might be a proposal made in a public setting. With family or friends, or both and possibly at random like going to Vegas and getting married there. Ok so once there is a date set then when it comes time for the wedding date. What happens during that time of waiting for the wedding date?

1. Nervousness
2. Happiness
3. Sad
4. Possibly and hopefully not but anger
5. Frustration because either maybe there is things not done or the wedding is not what the bride or possibly the groom might have wanted it to be. Plus the bride or the groom might feel like the bride or the groom might feel like the other might not be suitable for them anymore and either want to back out or have that in the back of the couples mind. The feeling of wanting the other person to change may not happen and that is going to be a hard decision because if the two get married then they may get a divorce because the two cannot work there differences out. That is very possible.
6. Therefore, the two get married and except the vows that was given to them when they got married

What happens next? Well the couple are married they now will share there lives together. Well there is more to this then that fairy tale ending that is told in those fairy tale books. Lets see there is all the what ifs and the could offs and or I am happy would not trade my spouse in for another. He or she makes me happy and is perfect in every way for me. Well those that experience hardships in the beginning with anything need to get some advice to make sure that getting married is worth the while. Sad but true. Because if a person is being rude, etc in the begging of the relationship then expect that in the marriage. It does not change just because you are married to them. The same attitude will still be there no matter what. Ok so here are a few things that might happen while being married. Now not to say it will but it might. Here are a few things to expect.