Is There Freedom While Being Married

1. What to expect in the marriage this is the negative side of marriage, not to say all marriages but there are those out there. Here is something that might want to know before hand.
2. If they are grabbing and hitting in the boyfriend and girl friend relationship then they might still do it in the marriage and might get worse over time
3. If the spouse is always yelling then there is a chance that it will either stop or still be that way once married
4. If the person does very little to help like you would like. The person might not help as much as you would hope being married. But there is a chance that they might wake up and start helping with things.
5. If the person is always cutting you, down every time you turn around. With negative comments, or cursing at you for any reason that is not good there is no telling if the person is going to change or not.
6. If the person does not like people and you want to go out somewhere in public then that might not change. It will always stay there unless the other person can over come there fear.
7. Being married is a completely new ball game. When dating there was friends, family, and other, people in your life that you probably did not know but talked to. Well being married seems to push away the friends and there is no one. Especially if the spouse is always upset and never lets you do anything without his approval or wants to be there by your side or wants to see your friends to make sure he likes them before you go anywhere with them. To make sure they are the right crowd to be going somewhere with.
8. If your spouse does not like a place you are going to then you cannot go
9. And here is the part that is the most irritating. When asking a question to the spouse what shall we do about this problem? The answer is always “I don’t know” I have to think about it” I will figure it out.” Don’t worry about it.” and then by the time comes nothing works out because of waiting for the spouse to figure out what the spouse opinion was.
10. Oh, here is a good one. Driving the car, only getting to drive the car when the spouse is either sick, going to the hospital, or something but other then that don’t drive because the spouse will get upset because the spouse does not like women or the other spouse does not like men drivers. So he or she decides to only drive because they are the safest driver in the world and the spouse is not to there standards.
11. Based off the previous statement- and the spouse who is, talking has been in accidents but the other has not. No even one ticket.

From bad to good, well there is the good side of a marriage as well. As you can probably tell, there are many negative things to say about marriage. Well just think about what it would be like to put up with that on a daily bases. Then it would be completely understandable. Now on to the good parts of marriage.

1. Good things about marriage
2. The good thing about marriage is the person knows your likes and dislikes,
3. Knows when you are angry and sad
4. And knows how to calm you
5. Helps do things around the house, weather it be a little or a lot in a given day
6. Helps with the children
7. Says “I Love You.” More then once a year.
8. Is there for you when you need a helping hand
9. Does not let anyone hurt you not even family
10. Keeps going threw all the pain and sadness in a day’s life, work, etc
11. Never lets anything really show to not upset the spouse
12. Working together is nice. Stress less!

And many more oh the main thing is watching a family start with just spouses to spouses and children now that is something to watch is a family grow from small to big. And to see families happy in what they are doing. That is something to look forward to and over time things that seemed impossible might not be as impossible as they might have seemed. So think twice about certain things and be happy when you say “I do” just think about the good and the bad, even though it might hurt. But in the end, it will be well worth it to know the true meaning of love and the false pretense of love. Thank you for reading.