Is Young Love Possible?
by Is it possible for teenagers to fall in true love?
Teenagers all the time say they will love the person in their relationship nearly right off the back. That is not true love, but maybe after a while of being with that person, is it possible to fall in love?
The answer is yes. Hearing crap from adults all the time telling us teens that there is no such thing as love at our age really boils my blood. In eighth grade my two best friends began dating. Three years later they are both 16 and still together, do you think that they are in love? I am sure they wouldn’t waste three years of their life’s together if they weren’t truly in love.
My last relationship ended with a stabbing after 15 months. She was crazy and told me she loved me after like a week and proposed to me and got our entire future planned, without my conset of course. This was when I was 15 years old. That is not true love. That is just a desperate suicidal girl that needs someone important in her life.
There are also those relationships of people who get together, do the dirty and say they are in love. That is fake love, that is love of the other person’s body and not the person with the body. That is just teen hormones raging.
To sum up, finding true love as a teenager is as hard as finding a hay in a needle stack, you have all the bad pointy relationships/needles and there is only one perfect hay straw/love. This does not mean that each teen has to search for their true love. We are teens and we are only this age once, and if love is what we want, then it is love we shall get.
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Post Commentmartie
On October 4, 2009 at 8:45 am
You can’t force love. When it comes it comes.
ceegirl
On October 4, 2009 at 9:00 am
I don’t agree with you. Because what the old folks say is true, Yes, you think you are in love but most of the times when kids are involve they stay together for they’re sake. Then gradually the love will fade away. I know, I experience it.
Jane Jane
On October 5, 2009 at 8:51 am
I wasn’t so sure. I guess it depends.
martinpm
On October 5, 2009 at 11:10 am
nice article, i think its infatuation at that age.
Avaxier
On October 6, 2009 at 4:27 pm
I agree with you. I hate it when adults keep saying things like : “Teenager has a shallow mind, they cannot have a true love”.
I have personally fall in love when I was 14, and it was good. Nice article!
Nikita K
On October 7, 2009 at 12:16 pm
I agree and disagree with you. As a teenager myself, I hate to think that any feelings I may have now is true love. I try to keep myself away from thinking that I may be in love for some strange reason. I do know people who’ve spent literrally FOREVER together and they are people who share true love but not everyone is like them.
I think you only truly get to understand what a loving relationship is when you are about 16 or something…Before that, like you said is raging hormones but that’s not to say that us teens can be in love! I think when you are young you are just such a ball of energy that nearly everything that hits you, you bounce of it. I think you start calming down as you grow older which is why older people say ‘teen love is no love’ when that isn’t true because it depends all on how much you mature inside when you are a teen.
Good thought provoking article!
fishfry aka Elizabeth Figueroa
On October 11, 2009 at 1:14 am
When true love comes knocking on your heart it is then, that you will truly know that you are in love. But be aware, you may be in love but that person may not feel the same way, and that stinks.
Super matt
On November 28, 2010 at 3:53 pm
Ummm is it weird how I feel in love in 3rd grade this article said if it is they dirty or say love right away its fake but neither o these things happened and I still think I love her.