Jealousy?

Ahhh, what a Beautiful free country we live where we have the choice of the person we fall in love with.Yes, but the freedom of a relationship stops there. The monetary aspect of a relationship is somewhat unspoken but it is there living is not fee. Well, neither is a romantic relationship. It has boundaries and with a respectful partner the boundaries are easily enough to endure.

When there is a partner that has a minute amount of insecurity you no longer have a relationship of freedom. Those of us whom have ever experienced such a relationship understand the value of it.The others of you that had your time in a jealous relationship know that sometimes it happens slowly sometimes it is instantaneous. It is always disguised love. Have you ever heard the phrase, “because I love you so much”, when the wasn’t a gift attached?

When your partner asks you questions after you return from work, the market, or your family does it cross your mind to say “if you wanted to know why didn’t you go with me?” As human beings we have the ability to understand what a relationship entails. We know that there is a line drawn in the sand. This is the line between us being happy in our relationship and the possibility of screwing up our relationship. When our partners have to question our every separation to find out if we have crossed that line…That is Jealousy.y comes in varied levels from the way our partner wants us to dress or look to the way we talk, walk or look at the opposite sex. Even if we have no sexual intentions to this person. rer. To balance something they cannot control meaning their emotions then they have to find what they can control…another person. If they are in control of what makes their emotions run a muck then everything is great in their eyes. For their partner life is hell. The pretensions and the conforming into the person that they “have” to be in order to have a manageable relationship is a life not worth having.

If a soul cannot be who they feel they are in their heart to pacify a controlliing partner then they have to realize that the partner is not in love with you. This person is not nor cannot be capable of love. Love is full of trust and respect. Respect is having courtsey. Trust is to give faith. So, that leves us Love. Without faith and courtsey there is no love.