Jealousy, Does It Come Out of No Trust or Too Much Love?
by Well, getting a little jealous sometimes is okay in a healthy relationship for jealousy is a natural emotion. Needless to say that in a healthy relationship you need to trust your partner. On the other hand when you love your partner with all your soul, it’s natural to get jealous when he/she is moving closely with the friends of the opposite sex. Jealousy, does it come out of no trust or too much love? Please keep reading….
Why do you get jealous? Let us first see why we get jealous. Jealousy like any other emotion comes from within. Most times the problem lies within you and not with the person you are jealous of. If you are not confident about your appearance and having a low self-image about you, it may cause jealousy. If you lack self-confidence about your talents and skills, again it causes jealousy. If you have the fear of losing your partner, if you are insecure about your relationship, jealousy creeps in. Last but not the least, your partner may flirt too much that gets you wild and jealous. However harmless flirting should be accepted by everyone.
How should you react when you feel jealous? Whenever you feel jealous, you should immediately assess the situation and figure out the causes for your jealousy. If you have a poor self-image about you, if you are not confident about your skills and abilities and if you are insecure about your relationship and have the fear of losing your partner, then please understand that you are the reason for the unwanted jealousy and that you must change. If you are sure that your partner is cheating on you, then jealousy becomes meaningful. In that case you can invade his private space in trying and solving the problem. You can express your feelings to your partner saying how much it hurts when he/she flirts with someone. If your partner really cares for you, then he/she would certainly stop the flirting act immediately.
Summary: Jealousy is a natural emotion that sneaks in any healthy relationship. It’s tolerable if it’s within limits. When you are madly in love with someone, you may become too possessive of your partner and you may not be able to cope with your partner moving closely with other friends of the opposite sex. You need to trust your partner and give them enough private space. However if you are certain that your partner is cheating on you, then you may invade their private space and ask them to stop flirting. If your partner is really in love with you she/he will stop the flirting when they know how much it hurts you. Thanks for reading.
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Post CommentKittyK
On December 17, 2011 at 7:24 am
I am not a jealous person; I feel that jealousy comes from no trust along with perhaps too much love – a vicious circle of someone who is insecure…
megamatt09
On December 17, 2011 at 9:28 am
Jealously can have many origins, even sometimes the jealous person doesn’t know, they just are.
Christine Ramsay
On December 17, 2011 at 10:22 am
You have put your points over well.
lovinglyoursjuny
On December 17, 2011 at 12:51 pm
I am jealous because I love him- and no one has the right to ask me why… :p
Nice article dear anna
mphsglo
On December 17, 2011 at 2:28 pm
Jealousy is a healthy emotion, except when it leads to obsessiveness and trying to control the other person. I think when it gets to that point there is some serious insecurity going on, either imagined or justified. When this happens I feel there is something terribly wrong within the relationship and the couple needs to sit down and address it.
erwinkennythomas
On December 17, 2011 at 6:03 pm
topic well explored
Angelji
On December 17, 2011 at 7:57 pm
For me jealousy is a form of love .If you don’t love a person you will never feel jealous…you try it…
ittech
On December 17, 2011 at 9:39 pm
A pretty good and informative article.
Very well presented.
scheng1
On December 17, 2011 at 10:46 pm
nice article.
vijayanths
On December 17, 2011 at 11:18 pm
Very well said mphsglo.I have seen some people who are so possessive of their partners that they try to control them a little too much, miserable their partners are..lol.
vijayanths
On December 17, 2011 at 11:19 pm
Angeli, I agree with you that you get jealous only when you love someone seriously.
Kristie Claar
On December 20, 2011 at 3:10 pm
good article
FX777222999
On December 22, 2011 at 3:52 pm
Well written and useful advice.