Keep It Simple & Sexy : Make It HOT Without Spending a Lot
by Create romance with five tried and true ideas.
There is an old saying, “No romance without finance.” Well with today’s economy being what it is, here are some practical ideas to keep the romance alive while keeping the change in our pockets. Here are 5 ideas to Keep it Hot without spending a lot.
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A Rose Isn’t Just a Rose
A single rose for your lover is just as effective as an entire bouquet. Leave it in an unexpected place, wrap it in lace or ribbon. Sprinkle it with glitter and attach a photo of you and your mate to the stems. This is a sincere and memorable gift. Attach a handwritten note on colored stationary, expressing your love to your partner. It will go a long way. When it comes to love, it’s the thought that counts. (Along with diamonds, but that’s not for this article.)
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Let Me Count The Ways
How long have you and your sweetheart been together? Whether it’s 30 years or 30 days, make a list of all the things you love about your beau or lady for each day or year you have been together. It is sure to touch the heart. It’s simple and thoughtful. What could be better?
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Talk Dirty to Me
Nothing ramps up the imagination quicker than a little mature talk for your honey. It is an easy way to forge intimacy. It is a common turn-on and if you do it the right way, creates a playful bond between you and your mate. Just don’t get too raunchy. The idea is to stoke the imagination, once you get the fire going, hormones usually take over. If you are shy, harness the power of innuendo. Flirt with your mate. Make eye contact and tell them something about them that turns you on. It’s a sure way to please your partner because we all need to feel needed and sexy. Start with a basic compliment, (Baby, those pants really look nice on you, or even the standard, Mmm that’s a nice cologne..but make sure you Purrr when you say it..) The effect is magic ladies, men are simple. So keep your sexy simple too.
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Surprise Massage
This one is a winner. A surprise massage for your mate. Break out the ylang ylang to fire up the sensuality and use a warm massage oil on your partner. Baby oil is ok, but it can be greasy. Try to use a natural oil like sesame or apricot kernel. Melted shea butter is also a hit. When it comes to massage, the key is slow, repetitive strokes with a firm hand. Longer is better. The body is made up of several long muscles in the back and the legs. For the massage newbie, use the 10 count method. Each stroke should be ten counts long. Your partner will love you for this. A foot or neck rub works just as well.
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Bubble Bath for Two.
One of the Simplest Ways to keep it sexy. A warm bubble bath for you and your sweetie. Invest in some quality bath foam or gel or create your own with powdered milk and lavender. Create the right ambiance in your bathing area. Light votive candles, play smooth jazz, pour a glass of wine for your honey. Follow warm bath with the above mentioned surprise massage. Your sexy will be in overdrive after that.
Employ some of these tried and true tips and you are sure to make it Hot without spending a lot.
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