Keep the Fire Burning
How to keep the flame alive in one’s marriage?
In the first few years of marriage, married couples are like poles of a magnet. They tend to be totally and completely attracted to themselves and never repel. Oftentimes, they tend to see each other as angels, or heroes, or knights in shining armor. They can even compete with Romeo and Juliet when it comes to their ardent love.
But after this stage, there would come a sort of doubting years. When a partner or both of them suddenly feel that what they have for each other has reached the verge of breaking down.
These may be perhaps the couple are used to what they often do, or most likely tired of their moods, fed up of the usual laughter that they used to enjoy, or the manner they treat each other has become trite to them.
In dealing with this kind of marital danger, at least one of the couple should try to think of positive ways which are new to their relationship. Surprising your partner with new ideas and styles, can re-excite, renew, and keep the fire burning in your marriage.
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ellen acero
On February 24, 2009 at 8:49 pm
Yah. Hehehe each partner should see to it that everyday is a surprised day to keep their marriage exciting always…Tarra Buluran knows how to deal relationships. I think this author not just knowledgeable enough but a perfect and good partner in life…
A good job Ms. Tarra Buluran.
orlando javier
On March 17, 2009 at 3:34 pm
love is a decision. we just don’t let it fall and let it flow. we have to consciously make it grow and bloom. knowing that we are beings with a natural saturation point for everything, we need to continually find new ways to keep our relationship up.
very timely reminder, tarra. we need these surprises.
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