Winter is too cold for a person to sleep alone. Image that in a cold winter, and before sleeping, it is nice to have a person to go under the quilt to warm it first. Therefore, it would be nice and warm to sleep. So, it is nature to marry or get married out of some good reasons. (Kidding)

Did you know that happy and nice sex relationship between the husband and the wife is vital to a marriage after you get married? It is not only an important feature of a marriage, but also a great way of soul communication to be as one. Therefore, it is important to keep your sex life alive after your marriage.

It is easy to do it for the honeymoon and the first several years, if it is a normal progress of your marriage life. According to the study, the dangerous point for a marriage is five to seven years after your marriage, because of the sex indifference, both physically and mentally. When you shake hands with your husband (or wife), and you find that it is like you are using your left hand to shake your right hand, it is a signal of indifference. Though it is a nature progress after marriage, it reminds you that you should try to find ways to keep your sex life alive at this time.

The first thing you do is to control the frequency of your sex activity, even during the honeymoon, so that you can keep a thrill of each time of having sex with your husband (or wife). You may have the experience that you usually have a very satisfying sex experience after a short separation with your husband (or wife), which is more thrilling than your first experience of sex. Usually, if you are physically strong and healthy, you can use this formula to calculate the frequency of your sex activities per week: 12- your age/7. This formula is suitable for the persons over 18 years of age.

Second, you have to keep regular physical exercises, such as jogging, walking, sports, and so on. This is to keep your physically health, in turn, it can help you to keep your sex alive much longer in your life time. That’s why some eighty-year old persons can still have a relatively happy sex life.

Third, when you find that it is boring to have sex, you have to consider some new ways to do it. Try to creative a romantic atmosphere: rosy lights, perfume, bathing together etc. Also, you can change places for having sex: in the bathroom, on the floor, in your swimming pool etc. It will make the experience exciting, too.

Fourth, find the right time to do it. The right time is both for you and your husband (or wife), when both of you have the mood to do it. This way, you both can enjoy it. Otherwise, it would be a torture to either of you. If it is a night with bright moon shining, and the air is very fresh, it is the right time for you to do it with the romantic surroundings.

Fifth, loving words and playfulness are necessary for an alive sex life. Some ways to say “I love you”, or a hint to say “I want to do it” really work like magic. If you can make it slightly playful of the sex experience, it would be much better.

Sixth, keep a proper diet with considering the enhancement of your sexual functions. Mutton, sesame oil, leek etc, are good for sexual function, both for women and men. Every week or three to four days, you can make some dishes specially for your sexual functions. If you don’t know which kinds of vegetables are suitable, you can search on the internet to find some. There are a lot of them.

Keep these tips in mind, and I am sure you can keep your sex life alive much longer in your life time. Do you think so, too?