Letting Go of a Relationship

Without love, trust and time, relationship becomes unhappy and might not understand each other. Letting go of a relationship doesn’t always mean that it is the end because somehow, it signifies that a better chapter of your life is about to start.

Don’t expect to have a perfect relationship because there’s no perfect in this world. Letting go of a relationship might happen unexpectedly and because of the issues came from: family matters; their religion; third party; being unhappy; lacking of time for each other. All of the problems have its solution but if you felt that love isn’t right for you and affects you badly, therefore, letting go of a relationship is the best thing to do. Don’t let anyone tell you how you are meant to feel or what you should do about these feelings after a relationship has ended. No one knows how you feel, it’s simply because they are not you.

If you felt that letting go of a relationship is the only way to survive your friendship, than listen to yourself. Lovers start being friends and must end up being friends. When you have decided of letting go of a relationship that both of you treasured along the way, it’s natural to feel all the regrets and missed the person you used to be with and the things both of you used to do. Sometimes, somehow, you only love that person because it is the feeling you injected to your system, you may not notice that you slowly fell out of love in a silent way.

Letting go of a relationship that never works is not your failure. To get out of one relationship bravely is a pleasure. Don’t try to fight the failure, you cannot rewrite the reality. Do whatever it takes to give yourself resolution and closure, and do so without hoping that you are going to get back together. Realize that new promises and right words do not change the facts. Remember all the reasons the relationship failed and accept the fact that those differences will eventually reappear. Accept that the relationship didn’t work in the end, and nothing will make it work any better in the future. Wounds are only healed by treating infection and being more careful in the future, not by kissing it and making it feel better for a moment. The longer the inevitable is postponed, the harder it is to heal. The decision of applying a temporary patch versus eliminating it is totally in your own hands.

Let love dies, don’t die with it. Everything may for happen for a reason. And every memory left its lesson in a way that you will always remember. Nothing lasts forever but memory stays as long as you are living. Though letting go of relationship is the saddest part of your life, you can’t erase it permanently, what important is, you learn from it… you learned from your own mistakes. Don’t let your one feet to be stacked in the past. Forgive then forget, step forward not backward, move on.