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Long Distance Relationship, How to Keep The Bond

If two people are far away to each other, distance is not a reason to fall out of love, because love cannot be taken by anything or by anyone, and true love remains no matter what..

Distance is not an abrupt reason why two people part ways especially if it is a long distance relationship. I have witnessed many, that relationships has started in a very blooming and romantic affair, turn into marriage but when one party has decided to work far away to support the family, to fulfill the dreams, being apart leads to neglect the feelings and then falling out of love.

If only both learn how to keep the promises and responsibilities to the relationship, nothing is impossible, it will last and no one will get hurt at the end.


There is a lot of ways to maintain the warmth and love to each other, Technology nowadays had brought ways of communications that helps human being to get connected anytime. A financial aspect is not primarily basis to consider because it will not cause a lot of money to spend.

Computer helped us a lot, couples can spend an hour a day to chat and talk about what’s happening in their daily activities, mobile has to offer as well, aside from chatting, a text a day or two is enough to send the words of affection and importance to each other, and though snail mail is a very traditional way, I suggest that once month, a couple should send a mail to each other. I assure that a personal hand written by each of them bring more excitement and entice the feelings more how loved they are.

If couple valued their relationship and love to each other, a time to spend doing this things were worthless as long as you love what you are doing and you are dedicated on what you do. I assume, all long distance relationships would have been more successful if these were applies.

Being far away to each other needs a solid and firm faith, trusting will help to build the relationship stronger.

Do not dwell yourself into too much thinking and doubting, instead learn how to trust the one you love. Allow him to go out with his friends. Spending time with other people doesn’t exactly mean that it is flirting with others, but then it is a mean of socializing, it’s not only between you and him but both of you need to explore. It is not to look or meet a new one but to prove that even how many people you meet along the way, as long as you trust and love each other, without hesitations you will still love each other.

Love is forever as long as you remain your faith in God and leave everything to him, He will show the way.

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  1. Winzadea

    On August 20, 2010 at 11:53 pm

    well now a days trust issues are the ones first determined in a relationship, I myself realized that love can no longer heightened from how long have you known each other or by what does he likes or not but on how fruitful this feelings of love shall last. I am so disappointed to Filipino people in terms of this unconditional loving because they are the examples of unconditional love and yet they are too picky or choosy. the problem is some Filipinos does not understand people’s differences. they don’t accept

  2. Kaye TM

    On August 22, 2010 at 3:51 am

    This is quite an interesting post.=p

  3. akira14

    On August 22, 2010 at 7:30 am

    thank you kaye.

  4. akira14

    On August 22, 2010 at 7:32 am

    yes,but a when a filipino love someone,it is real and he/she will give everything

  5. Raj the Tora

    On August 22, 2010 at 1:19 pm

    It is nice, interesting and intriguing post. Great job done Akira

  6. Raj the Tora

    On August 22, 2010 at 1:20 pm

    Trust is the bottomline of all relationships and thanks for bringing this up for us.

  7. Goodselfme

    On August 22, 2010 at 9:40 pm

    You are correct when you say BOTH have to be faithful and strive for the long distance relationship to be good.thank you for your great post.

  8. AshleyApathy

    On August 30, 2010 at 12:28 pm

    Interesting post. I’ve had a few long distance relationships, it was hard at times. But worth it, to me at the time.

  9. Joseph Scott

    On September 5, 2010 at 5:34 pm

    Very good article.. I agree with you, and the idea about a hand written letter is a very good idea! Thanks

  10. sapphirelaws22

    On September 25, 2010 at 7:14 pm

    Very nice article!


    On December 1, 2011 at 3:37 am

    an interesting insight on the topic

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