Losing Passion and Three Ways to Find It

My Triond friend Mary J Dressel wrote a poem called The Passion’s Gone. You can find the link to her poem here. This poem inspired me to write to my readers about Losing Passion.

Passion, the fire, the infatuation in your relationship can lose its ardor. You must play with the passion, fan the flames of the fire and tease the infatuation to keep the relationship on its toes. You may love your love, but what is love without the passion?

All to often after a few months of a relationship or for the lucky few out there, a few years, sometimes the relationship becomes “same-ole same-ole.” In other words, we get use to it and it seems that we neglect it, as we never would have thought to do from the beginning. Of course, we don’t become neglectful on purpose. Who wakes up and says, “Oh, yeah, I guess today will be the day that we should drop the passion in our relationship, we got to get into a good old boring routine.” No, that doesn’t happen. But what is very real is that we most often do get caught in the boring routine and the passion is gone.

I am going to sneak peak you into my own relationship and a few ways that I and my love keep our passion alive, fan our flames and get each other infatuated on a regular basis. (Not to say that we feel this way every single moment, but our passion is pretty much regular.) I will tell you about our dips as well. When the passion just doesn’t seem to be happening, and how you can be accepting of those moments.

Disclaimer: My articles are always toward the married couple, monogamous relationships, and long-term commitments. It is only my intention to make the family stronger. To help lovers feel and be strong enough to move on together.

In saying that, let’s move on here.

Tantra, Kama Sutra, Sensual Massage

Let’s start with the latter of the title. Sensual massage is often thought of in conjunction with masseuses or sex. This is not all that sensual massage does to enhance the relationship. Even though a sensual massage can play a very good role in the bedroom. It can do even more to strengthen the relationship and bond between two people that love each other, without ever getting into the sexual act after all is said and done.