Love
by When you listen or see the word “love” what first thought comes to your mind?
Love is an emotion that is very deep if considered justly. When I was a child, I was not aware of the word love. When I entered the teenage, it was a matchless feeling. For me, love was something that kept all the power of the world and now, I realize, how people perceive about love.
After seeing movies and dramas, people think that the heroes and heroines are in love and that is true love but that is not right. Whatever is shown on TV or cinemas is a very surfaced definition of love. Love is deep, it is connected to the soul. Whatever is shown on Media is only physical love.
When you love someone, you care about him/her, you keep regard for him/her, you never wish to hurt him/her, you try to make her/him happy always, you consider him/her as a source of your living, you think of him/her as someone out of the world, you regard him/her as the best creature of the world, you never like to see him/her with tears in his/her eyes and that someone is so special for you that you can lead your whole life with him/her happily.
Love is not temporary, it is long lasting. People who try to be separated after a number of love promises are only infatuated by the other person. They are not in love. If you want to see the examples of love, see your mother’s love with you, see your father’s love with you, see how you and brothers and sisters are connected, see how you love your children and your life-partner. A lover is someone who is aware of your good and bad aspects of personality but he/she continues to love you with all your faults.
You can gain love when you love someone. So, try to love your fellow beings and gain the same in response.
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Post CommentMaryam Iqbal
On February 27, 2009 at 1:38 pm
These are my views about love, what are your views? What are your experiences? Comment and we will discuss them.
Hawk
On March 18, 2009 at 10:31 am
how do you see love between spouses when one is badly in love while other takes it for granted rather than nurturing it to grow ?
Maryam Iqbal
On March 19, 2009 at 8:18 am
Well Hawk,
I feel that love only exists when it is felt by both the parties. One sided love is not love at all. In my perception, it is just foolishness that you are trying to follow someone who has nothing to care about you or your feelings. In addition, sometimes, it is only our perception that the one whom we love, does not love us in response. There are difference ways of expression. Some express it through saying and some express it through their actions such as they care for us, they try to make us comfortable and many other ways. Lastly, you should be always true with your partner if you love her, if not, you will get a careless response from her…. (I guess)
Regards
Maryam Iqbal
Hawk
On March 19, 2009 at 10:56 am
Thanks Maryam for your response. I think you are right, I was foolish to do the same because neither do I find actions nor words to comfort me from my spouse moreover I did smell a bit of insult instead…believe me I was true (why should I not be) but still was flooded with careless responses … anyways thanks again for your input… I got into depression but now recovered and taking care of myself on my own.