Love – a Normal, But Really Nice … Chemical Reaction

Each stage of love has its not complicated explanation of the chemical level, say anthropologists at the University of New Jersey. ”Every emotion and specific chemical reactions that activate the brain when a person is attracted to someone. 

The first stage of the innermost desire is associated with physical attraction to each other. The brain is focused on the positive attributes of your loved one and ignore all negative. At this stage one tries to establish a connection with a potential partner, his emotions are so strong that cause incredible euphoria. If at this stage the object of adoration resolutely refused its devotees, as a consequence of this appears inadequate despair. 

“During the passionate involvement in the body to release powerful chemicals: dopamine (which gives a feeling of well being) feniletilamin (which increases the level of excitement), serotonin (creating a sense of emotional stability) and noradrenaline (giving the impression that it may be achieve any goal), “say the authors of the study, whose results were published in the new issue Journal of the American Board of Family Medicine. 

Experts believe that there are people who want always to be in this state designated as the Don Juan syndrome, ie striving for continuous presence in the body of this “delightful cauldron of hormones:” Increased levels of hormones give them a good mood, activity, mobility. But these people are not capable of prolonged and profound relations. After the strong infatuation they pass the period of stable relationships, but again look for a new object of adoration. 

“Of course, no hormones stimulate love, but only impart material basis: long sleepless nights, endless love meetings, lengthy phone calls and finally active sex, but all this requires a lot of energy”, said the authors of the article. Stage continues to attract passionate average of 3 to 12 months and it can be defined as “biological technique of nature, which has the sole purpose of man and woman to give life a new man.” 

In these months, couples believe that their sexual attraction is ideal. Differences appeared after the completion of this phase and move to so-called. stage of attachment. 

“That’s when people are ready to grow with children. But with the conception, love process stops. The conclusion is paradoxical at first glance – it is best to be happy, but in moderation. It is good to love – that enhances the overall tone of the body, stimulates creativity and efficiency, but ever need to move and to create a more stable relationship. Therefore it is better to first occur and most intense love for life and now its background can dream, “commented survey results psychologists.