Love and Marriage
by So how do we KNOW when we are ready to make the ultimate commitment? What tells us that we are ready are ready for marriage? Are we bullied into it by our parents who want see their grandchildren and us settled or are we just so completely absorbed and totally obsessed by the other person?
When a marriage occurs it is the blending of two lives, the bringing together of two people. There ought to be love, harmony, commitment and an agreement from each person in the relationship to the relationship.
Weddings are the result of that commitment; they are the foundation to the rest of your life. Organizing a wedding is huge; it can often lead to the breakdown of a relationship before it has had the chance to blossom or make your relationship even stronger than what it was.
We obviously don’t think clearly when we are in love and when the rose colored glasses come off we are left with the truth. Sometimes the truth hurts and we find ourselves in a situation that we hadn’t anticipated. It can leave us running for the door or maybe the problem is bigger than us and we need to call in the experts.
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Post CommentReggie Sea
On August 27, 2006 at 10:55 pm
Thee is a difference between being in love and loving someone.
Loving someone does not happen over night. It might never happen but whe it does wow!
being in love means you are seeing everything witha rosy glow or you both are being driven by your hormones.
Iam not saying this is a bad thing because it is natures way of perpetuating the species.
Loving someone happens after you havce been in a relationship for may years and have suffered and endured through many trials together.
Lucy Lockett
On September 4, 2006 at 5:08 am
It is great when the hormones and the rosy glow is going – perfection!Even if it ends, its an experience worth having.