Love and Relationship in a Cyber World
by This past decade, we bore witness to the booming of the mobile phone, the PC, and the Internet. These change the way we did business, communicated with each other, and even socialized. Here are a few tips on how technology can help you handle relationship the 21st-century way.
Stimulation Simulation
There have been many instances of couples breaking up because of lack of contact. But today, instant-messaging applications like Yahoo! Messenger and Skype let you video chat for free. Since both of you can do this in the privacy on your own rooms, things need not stay PG-13. Be ceative and try chatting in the buff or getting video kinky. They’re unorthodox ways keeping each other erotically charged. For some, these may seem a little perverse to do, but are actually exciting ways of expressing fondness. Plus, it’s 100 percent private; just make sure that your frisky feed is broadcasted only to your intended viewer.
Surfing for Mr. Right
Filipino men, in general, aren’t the most eloquent of orators, so don’t be surprised if nobody has the guts to talk to you during a night out. if you’ve lost faith in looking for Mr. Right in clubs, you can turn to networking sites like Facebook or Friendster to meet a potential.Admittedly, it’s a form os stalking, but it’s actually no different from scanning the dance floor to check out the scene. And, like when meeting people in real life, it’s good to be honest about yourself and not exaggrate your profile entries. Also, to keep safe, it’s advisable to limit your prospective dates to those with whom you have a connection (e.g. your friend’s cousin).
Movies that Move
Today, anyone with a video cam and a PC can easily edit films. With applications like Adobe Premiere pro or Apple iMovie, you can easily make your own flicks, complete with video and audio effects–exactly the kind of mush guys can appreciate. Remember, though, that even the faciest-looking videos would mean nothing without heartfelt footage to tie them altogether.
The Real Deal
While it may seem that technology’s got our backs when it comes to adding spice to relationships, it’s good to note that it’s simply there to help. Everything it has to offer is limited to the virtual world and nothing still beats the real thing.it’s better to be a star in a home movie rather than just watching it; it’s better to talk to someone face to face than just chatting with them on the phone; and it’s better to hold loved ones uclose instead of just seeing them through a webcam. As far as I’ve progressed over the years, indulging in the basic and the real still remains the best way to keep a relationship happy and healthy.
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Post CommentCHAN LEE PENG
On March 29, 2009 at 10:56 am
Wonderful read here! Thanks for sharing!:-)
Luffy12
On March 29, 2009 at 11:05 am
alot of people rely on Cyber
rajeev bhargava
On March 29, 2009 at 11:24 am
a really very kind and thoughtful article with good advice on relationships. i enjoyed it very much indeed and gained practical knowledge from it too. thank you very much for posting this in. and i agree 100% that nothing beats the real thing.
Uma Shankari
On March 29, 2009 at 11:46 am
Good advice to spice up your love life.
DA Cournean
On March 29, 2009 at 12:00 pm
Good write. Of course nothing beats being personal and close.
Darla Cooke
On March 29, 2009 at 12:05 pm
Great article! I really enjoyed reading it.
Jake Greenwood
On March 29, 2009 at 12:13 pm
Very well structured interesting article. Fillipino men? Why don’t you generalise that sentence a bit more. You’re talking to the whole wide internet remember! Good article.
Morgana
On March 29, 2009 at 12:42 pm
With all the new technology some people just want to stay home and chat rather than going out and having a fun date . I agree with you, nothing beats the real deal
Alina Beck
On March 29, 2009 at 12:46 pm
A quirky take on the impact of technology on our personal lives – nice write
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On March 29, 2009 at 1:17 pm
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rutherfranc
On March 29, 2009 at 2:06 pm
agree with you on the closer, nothing like arguing face to face and making out afterwards..
Christine Ramsay
On March 29, 2009 at 2:09 pm
Technology has really come on hasn’t it. Some of your suggestions made me smile, especially the Skype one. Good ideas.
Christine
taddghostal
On March 29, 2009 at 2:51 pm
God ideas from a smart and savvy gal! Thanks
E. J. Dely
On March 29, 2009 at 3:23 pm
I liked the read; it was good. Not taking away anything from it, it just reminded me of my problems; otherwise, I thank you and it was very insightful.
(Tw~Hu)
Juancav
On March 29, 2009 at 3:27 pm
Face to face is worth.
Dee Gold
On March 29, 2009 at 6:01 pm
good one
Mr Ghaz
On March 29, 2009 at 6:32 pm
Absolutely awesome. That was great. Interesting piece. Nice 2 read. Thnx 4 sharing
Betty Carew
On March 29, 2009 at 7:30 pm
Excellent article Cutest very informative
LStacy
On March 29, 2009 at 9:19 pm
Good piece. I’m for the old-fashioned romance.
Melinda McQueen
On March 29, 2009 at 9:56 pm
Yes, it’s a great way to keep in touch, especially when it’s the only way.
Melody SJAL
On March 30, 2009 at 12:36 am
Very interesting.
papaleng
On March 30, 2009 at 2:07 am
well-written one, sayang nauso sana noong 70’s ang cyber world.. Hay!!!
Brown Baron
On March 30, 2009 at 5:00 am
Lovely article!
Alice Wonder
On March 30, 2009 at 5:05 am
Interesting read, I actually met my husband on an online game!
Unofre Pili
On March 30, 2009 at 5:27 am
Very fine tips. Thanks for sharing.
nutuba
On March 30, 2009 at 6:35 am
Nice article — I like how you closed it, focusing on the real deal.
Kate Smedley
On March 30, 2009 at 7:21 am
Well written article, I agree totally with your last comment.
macon
On March 30, 2009 at 9:10 am
i’ve heard of a feel “love born in the cyberworld” that made it to the real world. but then sometimes, it ends up badly. in any way, this is a good article. something to think about. good work!
nightcharmer
On March 30, 2009 at 1:43 pm
Cool article. The ending point is especially well wrapped up. Personal touch is still the best when it comes to communication. Good write up!
Armywriter
On March 30, 2009 at 2:49 pm
Is the internet replacing the bar scene? I liked the final thought but I myself do not think I could do a cyber thing. The problem with all that is someone can easily make themselves out to be exactly what the other person is looking for and then when it all comes out later on people are disappointed. I guess if you are desperate or lack the confidence too approach someone in person then this is right for you. The only thing that I think would appeal to me is the opportunity to meet others from different cultures.
wangari
On March 30, 2009 at 4:46 pm
hey! before my current boyfriend, i had just managed to wiggle myself out of being fixed up online – i know there r many success stories – but i believed it was better to meet a partner live, yet today, i think we rank exceedingly high in use of the net to communicate, not only is it true that it has all the above advantages, its also very affordable and we can be onine all evening while i study and he watches football {or something, lolz!}. Nice piece.
kns1992
On March 31, 2009 at 12:05 am
Nice article!
Parish Loveless
On March 31, 2009 at 6:18 am
I do not think that I like how technology has affected relationships. It seems more difficult to communicate. Especially, text messaging and the internet. Excellent article
Duff D Moss
On March 31, 2009 at 6:46 am
Seems to be the way these days. Had a friend who was recently divorced. Hadn’t been on the dating scene for ages – went online, and ye Gods – could not believe the action
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On March 31, 2009 at 2:47 pm
its funny, a lot of people think, NOOOO! bad! when it comes to finding someone online, but there have been many successes, my cousin found his girlfriend online, she is very nice. =]
vanessanichole33
On March 31, 2009 at 2:50 pm
=]i’m giving yew 2 comments (last was mine)because more comments cant hurt, can it?… i totaly agree with you though, in the fact that its better in real life.
Kimberly Moore
On March 31, 2009 at 4:02 pm
Great article! I know of sum that have great relationships on the interent:)
monica55
On March 31, 2009 at 7:36 pm
You are right in your conclusion that nothing beats the real thing. Nica article.
Monica
Mythili Kannan
On April 1, 2009 at 7:54 am
well said
mizterman
On April 2, 2009 at 1:40 pm
Once again, you have open up the minds of your readers. Great job CP
MMV Abad
On April 3, 2009 at 7:27 am
Thanks to the net… me and my sister are never apart. Wonderful read CP.
Jeremy Jusek
On April 15, 2009 at 9:15 am
I do enjoy reading your articles, you’ve got some interesting stuff here… don’t forget to add me CP! Good job on this one!
Dundas20012002
On January 11, 2010 at 4:32 pm
Do you really believe that to \”Cyber\” is OK, and it is a way to exprees yourself
eddiego65
On April 18, 2010 at 8:14 am
Enjoyable read. Very insightful!