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Love and the Aries

by Summer18 in Relationships, May 30, 2008

What it would be like to fall for an Aries.

Aries and love go hand in hand like a horse and carriage. When an Aries is in love, it’s felt from the hollows of their souls. Never done half-way and certainly never done in private. An aries lover can be quite gallant, male or female. Their love of the theatrics will prove to be quite entertaining, especially if you are on the receiving end of all the drama.

To an Aries, the chase is just as important as the catch. The challenge of romancing a new lover is beyond exciting. Their hearts beat proudly and thunderous at the mere fantasy of you and them in the throws of passion. Yet, when the show is over, and the prize has been won, the award is put fondly away. Perhaps, to look back on every now and again, a sentimental favorite memory. If only, to remind them, how utterly enthralling romance can actually be.

With this in mind, keep a close watch on your Aries paramour. Knowing that keeping them on their toes at all times, as to weather or not you have actually been won, might be your ultimate secret weapon. The game must always be in play, for them to want to keep the fires burning. Beautifully written romantic letters are to be expected. Extravagant meals will become the ordinary. Life might seem to fall into a perfectly planned dream. Ultimately, just don’t get too comfortable. The moment Aries begins to feel uninspired and things become too easy, they’ll begin a search for a new conquest. It’s in their blood. As long as you are aware of this “always uncontrollable wanting”, you will be prepared. Even when married, the Aries have a tendency to always think the grass may be greener. Quite unfortunate, at least it may seem. At least you can never say boredom has a chance to seep into your daily reality.

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It might seem fair to think that with an Aries, there will always be shadows of doubt. Maybe. A better road to understanding will lead you to compromise and keeping things in an unrelenting motion. The idea here is to always keep them wondering. Grab hold of your independence. Acknowledge your spirit daily. Those, who are too likely to please, will fall by the wayside. The stronger relationships meant to sustain, will keep a close watch on their roving eyes. One that will be of unwaivering equality, in other words, never let those slick Aries see you sweat.

Have you been turned off yet? The notion that a lasting relationship with an Aries man or woman seems like a lot of intense and substantial mental work, is not to be denied. However, lighting a few candles, challenging their spirit or making sure to keep them on their toes, doesn’t have to be so time-consuming. It just takes well thought-out effort. Perhaps, even a regularly scheduled visualization practice.

All in all, the prize to be had, is one that will undoubtedly be an adventure of a lifetime. One love affair that will never be forgotten. The enthusiasm and roller-coaster ride alone is worth any minor struggle you might temporarily have to endure. Cast all doubt aside and let the glorious spontaneity begin.

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  1. Natallie

    On June 19, 2008 at 4:53 pm


    Iam an aries woman dating an arien male, talk about rollercoaster it is more of an emotional twister!.. We’ve only been dating for a little more than a month and its been crazy but for some reason when i’m calmed and have time to think things out i like that he’s a little controlling, jealous, sensitive and needy!.. its a challenge to be with him and he’s been battling it out to endure my upfront in your face kind of sense about me. Everything seems so intense! Dont know if its worth it but well see if it is true that most things worth something arent easy and worth the fight. He does keep me on my toes, this pain in the butt man, i cant help but to have a little song in my heart and fire in my eyes for him. :) Yesturday i wanted to cry and was utterly a school girl completely heartbroken, today just with a little hello from him and my hearts soaring!.. This article is right on the button, there’s alot of doubt and i’m not to sure if i like it. I just have to beat the odds and be PATIENT… AHHHH!..

  2. neelam pandey

    On July 11, 2008 at 1:35 pm


    being an arian, i really found it very interesting and my similarities with my personality.thanx for sharing!

  3. mimi

    On July 18, 2008 at 11:24 pm


    OMG i am sooo in trouble with my boyfriend, bcz i am pisces and i am really emotional, and i have told him many times that i love him, what should i do
    PLEZ GUYS HELP ME I’LL BE HEART BROKEN ANY MINUTE

  4. Rach

    On July 31, 2008 at 7:40 pm


    Wow this is so extremely true. I’m interested in an Aries Male, and I’m sure he’s interested in me and his goal is to win me haha. Which he hasn’t yet…He’s definitely the definition of an Aries Male I laugh at how much this describes him.

  5. krystle

    On October 28, 2008 at 3:58 pm


    i am an arian woman and i can relate some to this, but in the same sense i am married(to a pisces) who is very controlling and hard headed and wants everything his way and wants the last word and i am the same way! it is so hard; up and down happy then sad, but i can honestly say that he is the one that has to be kept on his toes b/c i have won him so to speak and don’t want to put him away to win something else and the only time i think the grass is greener somewhere else is when i feel that he has lost interest and that surely i could find someone else to show i am worth wooing. so some of this also reminds me of pisces!

  6. NuNu24

    On November 20, 2008 at 7:18 pm


    I’m an Arian woman, 24yrs old. Trust me ladies of other signs, Aries men are lovers…YES however, don’t be fooled by their charm and seduction; they can be liars as well as cheaters! I’ve dated 2 Aries men, one was a March Aries and one’s birthday was 3 days apart from mine. The March Aries loved hard but played too many games, was always trying to prove himself worthy to me and was 2 jealous and possessive. The other one was always trying to compete with me, have you heard the phrase, “Anything you can do I can do better!” that’s how he was. He always wanted to come out on top and that was just plain annoying. Not to mention he was a little too popular with the ladies. My advice, stay away from Aries men unless you think you can tame the ram! Men looking for Aries women, you are looking for the ride of your life. We like change and a challenge as long as we (Aries) win. If you start to bore us we will definitely move onto something new and exciting. We’re livewires and very impatient so MEN don’t keep us waiting or you will get an earful the next time you see us (if we give you a second chance). Overall, Aries people love hard and want their partners to know the love they have for them and they fight for what’s theirs, so be prepared to be with a fighter and a true warrior looking to win all the time!

  7. Kitten

    On November 23, 2008 at 9:06 pm


    I’ve dated an Arien male for a while. Ariens are complete selfish,insecure,rude,inconsistent, blunt individuals.

  8. Anupatil

    On December 20, 2008 at 11:13 pm


    I am an Arien born in Apr 12th but all the things are not true they are very good when u love them truely.

  9. I See Fairies

    On January 21, 2009 at 3:06 pm


    My boyfriend and I are both aries. And we’ve been dating for almost a year now. Yes, sometimes our relationship feels like a ride on a rollercoaster, but other times it’s great. We rarely get into arguments believe it or not. Several websites like to stereotype the aries male and female coupling, saying how bad or explosive it can be. I believe that everyone has their own uniqueness to add to their own individual relationships. And I wouldn’t just rely on a source about your zodiac sign, it’s much more deeper than that when it’s actually a good pairing. =)

  10. debbie

    On January 26, 2009 at 4:17 pm


    how true is that….i always want to discover and find something new…my Pisces boy friend had tough time with me…
    i wanna share one more thing which is written here that i get bored of relations…new things ppl attract me..
    i am very much aries…
    very similar to my personality

  11. finewine

    On March 17, 2009 at 3:54 pm


    NuNu24 is on point! I feel great that I was able to maintain my Aries for almost two years, lol! I have used that phrase “anything you can do I can do better” to describe him all the time. Everyone who nows him doesn’t understand how I dealt with him but I guess I have more patience than I thought. I know he likes to see me fuss, roll my eyes and battle with him. But I am a taurus so I hardly fuss but when do, it is WAY more than he bargained for. He does like to explore and MANY levels but he always comes back. I don’t spoil him. I just care about him enough to tell him when he is right OR wrong. We were friends first and that made a big difference. Aries man can make the average girl lose her mind. Thank God I am not average. Oh, and he is gorgeous, intelligent, articulate, and loves kids probably because he is a BIG BABY sometimes. But he will always be my baby. My one issue that I can’t tolerate is that he will become distant at any given point in time. For instance I have not spoken to him in a month! I don’t chase him…I let him live his life and I live mine. If he comes back and finds me engaged or married that’s his loss. LOL

  12. Ronen

    On April 22, 2009 at 5:13 pm


    After an Aries women breaks up with a pisces male(Dating for three years). If so, what tips do you Aries have for me? (I am the fish)

  13. Ronen

    On April 22, 2009 at 5:32 pm


    (Sorry guys, new at posting blogs)

    After an Aries women breaks up with a pisces male(Dating for three years), is there a chance of getting back together for the second time. It was a mutual breakup but I realized what needs to be changed and would like to have another stab at it. At this time she would like to spend time apart and would like to be by herself. It is hard for me to get over her though. We really loved each other and I realize what I had lost and want to show her my appreciation once more. If so, what tips do you Aries have for me? (I am the fish)

  14. abcs

    On May 7, 2009 at 1:18 am


    i’m a capricorn girl my partner is aries should we marry?i’m waiting for your reply please reply me about our relationship.

  15. aries gal

    On May 7, 2009 at 3:54 pm


    We Aries women are both the seducers and breakers when it comes to relationships.

    So if we break off the romance, it’s because the relationship no longer challenges us.

  16. AriesRamIAM

    On May 26, 2009 at 4:40 pm


    Ronen

    I am an Aries woman to the definition. If she said she needs her space the best thing you can do is leave her alone. I would call her once a week. I was in the same situation not too long ago. I told the guy (Virgo) I needed space and he said “okay”. At first I was thinking screw him if he can just let it go like that (yes even though it was what I wanted) After he didn’t call like I thought he should- the chase was back on and I was immediately attracted to his complete and utter lack of will to lie down like a dog and take “it” (it being the load of bullcrap I was taking him through) Now I am with this guy and would never leave him nor would I ask for time off again- As I said before I am an ARIES to the definition and I HATE TO LOOSE. RAMIAM

  17. kristi

    On June 24, 2009 at 2:27 pm


    im a gemini woman dating an aries man its been 3 great mos. we met online and wen we met it was instant. the chemistry was so undeniable. we say wut the other one is thinking. we have so much in common also. he loves kids ive got two he has one. he likes to be in charge of things. a great cook great in bed. likes fine things such as porsche cars. drives one. he is all man i tell him that too. hes just so delicioso

  18. BRIT

    On June 24, 2009 at 5:32 pm


    IM AN ARIES [4/3], MY SISTER IS AN ARIES [4/16], MY GRANDMA IS AN ARIES[4/1]. A GUY I USED TO TALK [4/6] TO WAS AN ARIES AND WAS SUPER ARGUMENTATIVE AND GOT VERY FRUSTRATED EASILY BECAUSE HE COULDN’T SAY HOW HE FELT EASILY. THAT DID NOT WORK. MY SISTER IS VERY ARGUMENTATIVE AS WELL AND MUST always BE RIGHT. I DONT LIKE TO ARGUE AND HARDLY EVER DO unless I KNOW IM RIGHT [[ARIES,, I NO!!]]. MY GRANDMA ISNT MUCH OF AN ARGUER EITHER. THE GUY THAT IM TALKING TO NOW IS AN ARIES [4/8] AND IS supppper COMPETITIVE AND CLAIMS HE’S NOT A SORE LOSER BUT HE ALSO SAYS HE DOESNT EVER LOSE, HOWEVER, WHEN I BEAT HIM IN A LITTLE GAME HE WILL NOT ADMIT TO IT. HE ISNT MUCH OF AN ARGUER THOUGH AND IS MORE LIKE THE MIDDLE MAN THAT WILL CALM EVERYTHING DOWN IN THE END [[FROM EXPERIENCE]]. ARIES ARE VERY VERSATILE AND CAN GO EITHER WAY, IT JUST DEPENDS ON THE PERSON. ME, WHEN IM DONE WITH A RELATIONSHIP AND DO GET BACK WITH THEM IT ISN’T FOR LONG. MY VIEW IS IF WE BROKE UP ONE TIME IT’S PROBABLY FOR A REASON AND IT WILL ALWAYS BE IN THE BACK OF OUR HEADS IF WE GET BACK TOGETHER SO THERE REALLY ISNT A POINT IN GETTING BACK TOGETHER UNLESS ITS HONESTLY A MISUNDERSTANDING. AT THE SAME TIME, MY SISTER WILL GO BACK TO THE SAME GUYS OVER AND OVER AGAIN. ONE THING FOR SURE IS IF WE GET BORED, WE’LL SEE YOU AROUND!

  19. Sw33tChiick91

    On June 25, 2009 at 3:05 pm


    ello im a saggitarius female…and ive bein goin awt wid an aries guy 4 like 2mnths we had loads ov arguments, we evn broke up few times buh we got bak 2geva. hiz alwys da 1st one 2 saii swii, bt his got temper prblmz azwel after all wen his nt agresssiv or angry hiz realii nyc n funni, hiz alwys der 4me. =D

  20. hotheaded

    On June 30, 2009 at 3:23 pm


    i am an aries male, i was dating a gemini for a little over a year (i seem to be atracted to them). we were head over heals for each other at first, she said i was her prince charming. We are no longer together, but i wish we were. I lost her because of my fiery temper and my selfishness and neglect. A word to the wise for all you aries out there that found someone you really like, if you start feeling bored or feeling like the grass may be greener on the other side, give yourself time before you act on those feelings, and be sure its the right thing before you do, or you will be sorry. I know i am. Keep your ego in check and roll with it.

  21. preciousyas

    On July 6, 2009 at 7:26 pm


    I am so confused. I am a virgo and I have to admit, I have it bad for an aries man. Me being a virgo, I hate to admit defeat, but boy I have been defeated. This aries man has really put me through it. Everything started out just fine….hanging out, watching movies, eating together: perfect, right? So I thought….. then he just became distant out of nowhere. I am certainly not used to this considering the fact that I don’t show any emotion and I can be quite cold and standoffish, but when I got a dose of my own medicine, I wanted to cry………something I never do. WIth the economy being bad and all, he lost his job, everything was fine at first, but then he just stopped calling, doesnt want to see me, and now he only texts…….once in a while (something he never really did in the beginning). I never not once let him know that he had me, but then he up and decides to become distant, so whats going on? I am not the type to smother, stalk, pester, or show I am in need of anything BUT I want him back ASAP! Can any of you aries out there shed some light on my current situation?

  22. TaurusGRL

    On August 31, 2009 at 4:08 pm


    I am a Taurus Female dating an Aries Male for 10 months now. From the moment we first met it was an instant connection and since day one we have been inseparable. However as time progresses it does seem a bit of a roller coaster. But We have great communication & never have heated discussions.

    One thing is that he tends to show way more interest in me when I am out & about with my friends or hanging out with another male. \”The idea here is to always keep them wondering. Grab hold of your independence. Acknowledge your spirit daily.\” Which is VERY True!

    I do feel its a mental strain sometimes, but everyone tells us that you can the chemistry & our love for each other. Most importantly we show & tell how we feel.

  23. Pie

    On September 6, 2009 at 9:27 pm


    my ex aries bf has cheated me so badly that now i hate aries :-S

  24. capricorn

    On January 2, 2010 at 1:04 am


    I feel aries people are more like the enemies of love. They do not understand that a relationship is all about forgiveness, soft emotions and trust. Anyone challenging such thing is sure to get hurt later. There is something called Karma after all. I personally do not like aries people since they are deceitful. Also they look ugly!

  25. Ashley77

    On January 8, 2010 at 6:29 am


    I am a taurus and in love with an aries, but i am seriously confused if he is in love with me or not. when he talks to me, he sounds interested and we go on talking for hours, but for a few days, he has just been ignoring me. i am just trying to work out the puzzle, i mean i am so head over heels for him, but now he stopped talking. its really annoying. i dont know what to do. how do i find out his feeelings for me, if he has any anyway?

  26. TaurusMan

    On January 12, 2010 at 10:43 am


    My 1st love was an aries. I’ve tried to win her heart for almost 9 years since 1991. She broke my heart twice but I never give up my love for her.Now after 8 years we accidently meet again in facebook. She then realised how much I love her and we were couple for 7 months, sex were good, until she suddenly left me again although there’s no big issues between us. She said she loves me but do not want any commitment. All my calls and text were not replied.I was left in confused.I love her very much. Aries gal out there pls help me. How can I win her back? Is she still love me? or is she need some time alone?

  27. ShifuYaku

    On March 1, 2010 at 3:22 am


    I am currently seeing an Arian man, who, if not all the time, tells me he’s bored ALL the time. I do not know how to keep his interest except by trying to do new things all the time. I am a Virgo, which means I am a little picky about the things I do, and I like to be planned out and orderly. He and I really do like each other. When I am with him though, we are so good together. Today he let it slip that he loved me, but tried to take it back. When I pushed about it, he tried to say it was a joke. I told him that you shouldn’t joke if you don’t mean it. He then started to say we should do something tomorrow… I think he really wants this to work and realizes that we need to stay exciting. He always reads my mind, too. This man is just amazing and stubborn and cute! :) )

  28. SXYGemini

    On March 6, 2010 at 3:14 pm


    I have been with an aries man for about 5 months now and I know he cares about me and doesn’t want to let me go but aries men are CHEATERS!!! He doesn’t want to commit, he doesn’t want to show me feelings or even talk about them, but his actions when we are together shows me he cares. We have such passion and great intimacy and I’m completely in love with this man. Even though I know he has other girls and it hurts me right down to my core, i’m finding it hard to let him go. Basically i’m giving him the power in the relationship and I don’t want that because I know my worth! I get approached all the time by men wanting to date me and have a chance with me and I can’t even think about them like that and one thing about me as a gemini woman even though people say we like variety which is true if we’re not into anything serious, but when I really and truly love someone I am 100% devoted and it’s because most gemini’s are so picky when it comes to someone worthy of loving. I just don’t know how to get him to realize this and if it’s really worth my time and effort. I’ve been thinking I need to let go of these feelings and move on before it tears me apart emotionally. He is so selfish, it’s all about him and what he wants and it’s really not fair to me to be involved with this man if he totally disregards my feelings and the love I have for him while continuing to deal with other women. I don’t know what to do here, if anyone can give me some advice i’d really appreciate it. I know it seems like the obvious answer would be to get out before it hurts too bad but I think it’s past that point now anyways. We have such a bond that i don’t feel like I want to break that because I’ve never had that with anyone else before, but at the same time I need him to see my worth. :(

  29. ancient mariner

    On March 10, 2010 at 11:21 am


    Aries(from mariner):- Youth,Wealth,Authority and Ignorance are cause of misfortune induvidially.What to say when all 4 are present?

  30. iamthatis

    On July 16, 2011 at 5:08 am


    Ok, I’m an aries male 23, and as I was reading the comments to this article I found many of them at vest offensive. Not all aries are cheaters.I personally have Never cheated on a partner. When I fall its hard and fast and thrilling and I do my damn best to keep that fire alive. Saying aries are nothing but cheaters is like saying all christians are biblethumpers who attack pagans, or all white people are racist, or all mxicans can’t speak english worth a damn, its borderline biggotry.
    That being said a big problem is many aries have one gear and it forward and its fast. Its not just in relationships but every aspect of many aries lives, its all I personally have ever known. Lead follow or get out of the way. It is brash but its true. Another problem is trying to make an aries comfortable enough to stick around. Think of a dog, one that’s locked up inside all day. Every chance many canines get they will bolt out of the door or completely freak out when the owner returns because they have no outlet for that energy.we again have one gear, and its to go, doesn’t matter where or why, just that we are doing something. Now aries isn’t without blame, many of us are selfish, and jealous. But I know personally when I fall its for that one special girl and when I dedicate time and energy to the catch that I worked for and they drop a mask they had on to attract me it hurts because I feel like I was led to believing something that was untrue. What I show people is what I am one hundred percent, all the time and I expect that from other. Its a personal failing in this day and age where people are taught they always have to be better or they’re worthless but to an aries your worthless if your pretending to be something your not. You don’t have to be energetic all the time but you can’t expect us to fight such a big part of our nature with out a bone thrown every once in a while, just like guys can’t expect to keep a female they give zero attention too.
    Just remember. Not all women are naggy wenchs, not all men are souless slobs, and not all aries are cheaters. Be upfront, every so often make us work for you, force us to call on our reserves of romance and spontenaity, make us work to win your heart over and over again. Aries love falling in love, but that doesn’t mean we can’t fall head over heels for you over and over, that’s what we want. And if that’s not what you want find someone else.
    Blessed Be :)

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