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Love and the Capricorn

An overview of what it would be like to fall in love with a Capricorn.

Relationships can be confusing for most, but for Capricorns they can be downright frustrating. Falling in love with a Capricorn is a risky venture. The deep-seated need they have to be in complete control takes the patience of a very special partner. For you see, a true Capricorn finds falling in love to be too scary and quiet a vulnerable place to be. So, it isn’t very surprising to know, most Capricorns prefer the solitude and less pressured way of life as a loner. Little chance of unrequited love, and little chance of that horrible “dependent” feeling that comes with trust. The goat carries an enormous pride, to even think that they can be pitied could easily cause a nervous breakdown. They don’t “need” anyone, or so they’d have you believe.

If, however, you feel mysteriously drawn to proud Capricorn, you might be pleasantly surprised. On the surface, he or she make look like a tough cookie to crack. But, take a closer look, one with a keener more present eye. What you will find, is a true romantic, as soft and willowy as a delicate tulip. Can you hear Capricorns gasping at the thought of being compared to a gentle flower? Let’s ignore them for now. The sad part though is, no matter how romantic they may feel about a new relationship, they have questions that need to be answered. Will this person help raise me to the next level? How will we look together when out socially? Will my family find this coupling a suitable match? Alas, Capricorns rarely marry for love and passion alone. A regret that unfortunately lingers in their minds that can cause real lasting torment.

Capricorns usually marry young if the right qualifications are met. If the well-thought out profile matches, then you’re on your way to wedded bliss. If a Capricorn doesn’t find all the right stuff in their present lover, then the marriage-minded Capricorn waits it out. They would never marry on a whim, the sanctity of marriage is all too important. Once married, you will find obligatory loyalty and respect for family ties. The surface “perfect” family perhaps, unless your able to seek the real treasure that’s buried deep within.

Kisses and hugs can become a rare indulgence. Capricorns are for the most part serious-minded and giddy affection is perceived as a bit weak. Yet, a soul-mate who can teach him or her about the importance of a heart-felt playful affection, will have a powerful impact. Eventually, teaching the old goat new tricks will have a profound and life-changing effect. Capricorns are in dire need of rediscovering their child-like innocence. Bringing up the inner child in them, will do more for them than any extensive therapy. Unleash their creativity and you will open a whole new world for them, which they will be forever grateful.

If all goes right when in love with a Capricorn, true loyalty and respect can prove to go a long way. When things fall by the wayside, then a subliminal prison might have been entered. The sincerely enlightened will know though, that to melt that heart of theirs will open an amazing world. One that can be glorious and well worth the beginning struggle.

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  1. melissa

    On June 16, 2008 at 5:25 pm

    I am a capricorn and I agree with most of what you are saying. We are control freaks but i love to cuddle and kiss and hug, but I think thats because I’m a girl. Cool article in all.

  2. alisha

    On June 22, 2008 at 10:34 pm

    Nice Article! I find the capricorn heart soft and delicate like a tulip to be true. I know this guy that is afraid to love, but has a heart like gold. He wants to love, but is afraid to show his vulnerability. I think it’s worth letting your spouse see your real heart. When you let your spouse experience the capricorn love, the capricorn and their spouse experience new heights of love and marriage. Capricorns may appear extroverts but in real life they want to be love, wanted, respected, and just want to be happy!

  3. alisha

    On June 22, 2008 at 10:43 pm

    I want to marry this guy, but he is afraid to love. I been praying that he comes through his fears. I hope soon we get married. Yeah, its tough to deal with capricorn fears on love. I remind myself, once his fears are over I will have a wonderful husband.
    I keep faith.

    BTW- I am a cancer woman cusp leo. While my capricorn guy is capricorn cusp sag. If anyone is curious about the compatibility stuff.

  4. elizabeth

    On July 21, 2008 at 10:35 pm

    what did they mean “ignore us?” How are we like tulips? Hmm, interesting. I’m a capricorn and I have real trouble with getting close to men. Eh well. I like this article though.

  5. #5 by Lekia july 22 , 2008

    On July 22, 2008 at 8:54 am

    I believe that is true about capricorn women. Because my male friend is a cancer but im afraid that he will break my heart so i keep a certain connection with him.He’s very attractive and he has alot of female friends i don’t trust him enough to be in a love relationship with him i rather be his friend until i feel i can trust him enough to be in a love relationsip with him.But once i do trust him well enough he’ll get the best of my trust.

  6. cuspy

    On July 27, 2008 at 4:03 am

    hey, do you think a cappy male will go well with a sag/cap cusp girl? the cusp girl has more cappy ambitions

  7. taury the taurus

    On July 29, 2008 at 9:31 am

    I’m sooo in love with my cappy boyfriend but I fear that his moodiness is a sign that he doesn’t feel the same way. I wish that I could see inside his emotional mind and find the right words to soothe him and make him fall hard for me because I would never let him down with my unwavering love and affection. I hope he doesn’t want to marry someone for material comforts because I am a starving artist who knows that material comforts are full of more oceans of emptiness.

  8. mil

    On July 30, 2008 at 9:52 am

    my girlfriend is a capricorn and we’re in a lesbian relationship and this is pretty true. im an aries with no problem speaking my mind and putting every part of me on the table for her but her inability to drop her guard and tell me her feelings tend to get to me. but with persistence its true they soften up. she’s also ridiculously goal oriented a work fiend like a capricorn while im the lazy, carefree aries with no goals or job either lol. i could go on and on but basically, this article is very insightful and accurate.

  9. Georgia the Gemini

    On August 20, 2008 at 5:28 pm

    i just recently got involved with a Cap guy adn he’s young and lively..He seems to melt down some of that hard exterior when we spend time together. he was born in december though. i am not sure if this will affect the accuracy of his behavior according to this article. He has “cappy ambitions” with money and order in relationships, and in some ways it makes me nervous, but I’m not quitter..i guess i will do well in being patient.

  10. Cap girl

    On September 18, 2008 at 11:24 pm

    I am Cap girl who is in love with Aries guy. He is hot for me sometimes and his feelings cool off as quick as his passion. We’ve arguments and fights. He is kind and gentle, but I can’t seem handle him. Can anyone help me if the relationship is possible between Caps and Aries? I’m frustrated to the max.

  11. mya

    On November 21, 2008 at 1:27 pm

    i am only nine years old and im a capricorn and i love being a capricorn i am bossy to my mates but they dont mind cause i told them wat is like to be a capricorn and i told them cant be bossy so when i told them that they did not mind and some capricorns should be gratfull to be bossy for all i no i am very proud to be a capricorn

  12. Eva

    On December 9, 2008 at 8:38 pm

    This article seems accurate about Caps. I am a Capricorn. I take life and relationship as well as my career very serious. It sure is true I’ll be very picky when it comes to marriage. I’ll make sure if the temperature is right for marriage. No silly, impulsive, risky decisions.

  13. Pan man

    On December 11, 2008 at 11:36 am

    I was born during the Goat. How dare anyone criticise those of us from that time, I suppose they will all see their errors in the end.
    As for “love”, my Love resides inside a fortess protected from the unworthy, the key to the fortress was cast into the wilderness and only one who is pure of heart can find it and use it, at least I hope thats the case or else all will be lost and time will have been wasted.
    Everything is going to plan, plans within plans.
    Joy to all! Learn the lessons! Taste the wines!

  14. test comment

    On December 27, 2008 at 9:38 pm

    I fell in love with one and he was consistently mean and cruel to me before he ever even got a chance to know me. It drove me nuts but it made me like him because I thought he was just teasing me. I couldnt face the fact that he really didnt like me and refused to give me a chance for whatever reason. He was very hurtful and noone was ever that meant to me before in words or in actions. He was not strarightforward about his feelings. I was realy attracted to him but I realize he wasnt teasing he was seriosuly mean. That hurt and took a long time to face. I just felt like I wasnt good enough for him but never knw why.

  15. Alicia

    On January 5, 2009 at 7:22 pm

    I’m a full fledged Capricorn in almost every aspect and I am very happily dating a Gemini. His moodiness and disorganization tends to frustrate me at times, but my stable nature helps balance him out. He helps me branch out and is able to teach me knew ways of thinking and show me many new experiences(especially in the bedrooms, let me just say). I have heard we are an unlikely duo, but we work, and I have never been happier. I dated a Scorpio for a year and a half, and it was unsuccessful and I was very unhappy, even though we were supposed to be very compatible. Goes to show you never to dismiss a love match due to your zodiac compatibility.

  16. TD

    On January 9, 2009 at 12:34 am

    I am a Capricorn and this explains me well. We tend to be afraid of feeling vulnerable. Its hard for us to be honest or depend on others, not because we dont “trust”, but that we have a hard time taking off our “cool and confident” reserve. We tend to hide behind it a lot.

  17. SW

    On January 16, 2009 at 8:02 pm

    Maybe I’m wrong…Nevertheless. As it seems to me now the priorities of life are greatly misjudged. Love and marriage for me are only bonuses. It is also only a perceptive illusion brought about by certain physical reactions. For instance if someone spits in your face then anger would result. Do the right things and look a certain way and anyone could “fall in love” with you. I find that true love is the altruistic nature potentially existing in all human beings. To be more blunt, you don’t need marriage and another person to have that true love. If one loves themselves unconditionally then they can love the world unconditionally. Anything other than that is redundant and a fanciful evolutionary mechanism to procreate. Thus rendering love and partnership in the conventional sense unnecessary.

    Yes, I’m with someone and I do not love her. She doesn’t do the right things to ignite that feeling of “love”. Nevertheless, she’s devoted loyal and will make a great mother and wife. Creating a habitat that benefits the whole of humanity is priority for me. So as a capricorn I shield a potentially disastrous and very passionate side of me with a stoic intellectual somewhat cold wall. I’ve tried to be passionate only for it to end in a blaze of glory and sadness. Like a prince marrying out of politics, its much better to be with someone out of materialistic gain than wallow in a fantasy of love which is only a perceptive illusion.

  18. Diva Sagittarius

    On January 29, 2009 at 10:04 pm

    I really like this capricorn guy and he’s just weird. One day he likes me and the next day he ignores me. Yet, when he sees me talking to another guy, he stairs at me. WEIRD. Actions speak louder than words. I pretty much gave up on him. Maybe, he’s just not that into me. His lost. But, i still got love for him at a great distance.

  19. Emma

    On February 6, 2009 at 1:22 pm

    I’m a Capricorn girl, and I really get “why-the-hell-did-I-do-that!” thing REALLLLYYY bad! And I alway get thing back on stuff I did like ‘God! WHY DID I DO THAT!’ and it stops be from doing so much and getting involed with pll. Thats one thing I really hate about me, Oh and being so bloodly PROUD! I always feel so held back!!!

  20. bbfrost

    On February 15, 2009 at 9:35 pm

    I am a capricorn girl and I do observe a lot of guys who are potential boyfriends. It does take a lot of patience for us to make all the necessary observations and guys need a lot of patience to wait for us. i have missed out on being with some guys b/c i need the time to wait and see. by the time i figure things out i was too late. some guys don’t even bother cuz they think we’re too aloof (so not true!!). but its worth the struggle to find that special someone who can last in a relationship, so i don’t see these things as capricorn’s downfalls.

  21. B

    On March 4, 2009 at 1:16 am

    for SW… i see your point.
    It is possible to \”do the right things\” and look a certain way and inspire the feelings of love. That makes putting yourself out there scary, because as a rational person, you recognize the potential for fraud.
    But, what happens when someone doesn\’t have to try to do the right things, but nevertheless, the things they do naturally, especially when they don\’t know you or anyone else is watching, drive you crazy?
    What happens when you look at girl with and without make up on, after working out, after a long night of studying or right when she wakes up, and you can\’t help but think Oh My God, who is this beautiful creature?
    My point is simply that you may want to consider opening yourself up to the possibility that there could be someone out there who is so perfect for you, that even you will feel it.

  22. Mercy

    On March 6, 2009 at 9:28 pm

    Ok!I am a very proud capricorn,I am 23 years old and have already been emotionally scarred!I’m a lesbian female that has been with six and I repeat,six scorpio’s,and I let my guard down when I felt comfortable enough to,and I’ve been played by every last one of them!IT is very true that we are scared and vunerable as far as our emotions,but we also dish out alot of trust once we’ve given our fragile heart to that special someone.And that is one huge flaw for the capricorn.I have a question,my rising sign is scorpio,who would I be compatible with?

  23. Libra with progressed Scorpio

    On March 9, 2009 at 5:50 am

    I was petting my capricorn bf on the nape of the neck. He never reacts except in jest to my affection. he seems bewildered when I tell him I love him and he says “prove it!” But when i asked him directly, he told me he Really likes it when I pet him. He said that he won’t know whether or not he loves me until i break up with him. He obviously has a hard time really believing me and rightly so. what if my feelings change? i am enjoying getting to know his ways. I wish I could unlock some more affection from him though. I need to be held and caressed and he seems to not “get it” without my specifically asking for it each time. I guess time will tell. i hate waiting though! He’s a keeper and he doesnt act like he might realize that i am too! I want to marry him and make his babies!!! Theres a lot he doesnt say. caps can be really hard to read!!! i found this article somewhat helpful.
    my sign is: libra/scorpio sun, leo rising, scorpio moon, virgo venus
    his is: capricorn sun, pisces rising, scorpio moon, pisces venus

  24. Abby

    On March 11, 2009 at 3:35 am

    my bf is a goat… sometimes can be a pain in the neck…clumsy in a cute way… but i love everything in a virgo.

  25. jazz

    On March 16, 2009 at 11:55 pm

    capricorns need the right person to bring out the true romantic in them. You have to be very affectionate and dote on them. The men love to be pampered and catered to by a woman. show lots of affection, like cuddling caressing, hugging, they will fall more in love with you. You have to be classy and sexy naturally

  26. sad

    On March 20, 2009 at 2:17 am

    This article is very much true for me. I am a capricorn and i find it so hard to enter into new relationships of any kind. I’m very cautious and not too hasty to jump into anything. I’m guarded with my feelings, it’s hard for me to simply let go and allow love to flow naturally. I have a need to maintain control at all times, allowing myself to fall in love is a huge gamble and i can’t help but overanalyze the situation. On the outside i may seem cold, rigid, distant, disconnected, even stuck up, but deep inside i am very loving, loyal, and tenderhearted. Letting love in, for me is a very, very slow process.

  27. Antonette

    On March 21, 2009 at 8:32 pm

    I am a girl, 17 years old, and I met Jenny, 18 years old in an online game (Wonderland Online). This article is very true about her. When I first met her, she really is a VERY PROUD and an arrogant person .. but it didn’t turn me off.. It even made me interested about her.. (maybe because of my aquarius moon and virgo rising).. When I put up with her patiently, she started being REALLY REALLY SWEET.. I couldn’t even imagine that she was the same girl i met.. She became so sweet telling me everytime that if only i would ask her heart, she will give it to me.. Funny thing is, she also said to me that she tried acting to be bad when she first me.. so, she was just testing me whether im person to be trusted.. I’m really happy with her eventhough it’s virtual. I’m a libra with virgo rising, aquarius moon, virgo in venus, mars in mercury, and scorpio in some other planets.. She’s a carpricorn and I’m really happy with her.. I guess I have entered her “fortress” already because eventhough im a libra known for sweetness she even sometimes beats me in that aspect.. LOL, she said she’s a bisexual and I guess I am too.. My first true love was with an Aquarius girl, but it didn’t work out..cause I was a bit emotional then.. i was just 16.. lol. but thanks to her I learned how to love truly.. LOL, anyway, this might seem long but I just wanna share that astrological compatibility isn’t everything because a libra like me and jenny, a capricorn fell in love unconditionally.. my aunt and uncle who are together for 30 years are libra and capricorn too.. I’m sure that to make a relationship work, all you need are faith, trust, and mos importantly love.. because with love, all good things will follow through.. :) I’m kinda young to say this.. but hey, the young have a lot to say these days.. :)


    On March 31, 2009 at 5:24 pm

    its funny.. yes we are complete control freaks.. except im alittle more on the crazy side lol i was just thinking.. my rising sun is Virgo and my moon is a scorpio.. my thing is.. im with a girl.. shes a virgo.. perfect match i know.. her rising sign is taurus.. perfect match… but her moon is a sagitarius.. our moon is not a perfect match. ive read the compatibility.. and it says that a scorpio and a sagitarius will learn from eachother.. and its crazy.. im looking for my soulmate.. but i guess only time will tell.. only the man above can make that happen.. i would just like to meet a girl thats a taurus or virgo.. with a rising sun thats a taurus or capricorn.. and a moon thats a cancer or pisces..

  29. Wise Capricorn

    On April 3, 2009 at 7:11 am

    I am capricorn , and had very bad experiences four times , my love was not reciprocated , one girl said you are infatuated , the other always sang the same song , love is comprise , marriage is comprise and nothing else , and one girl cheated me , she displayed fake love only to seek my favour for her some project work , when the project work was over she disappeared, and the fourth one , whenever I talked about love she said focus on your business , she only talked about money , money and nothing else . But, Now I have changed the rules : The girl must be financially sound and successfull too , she has to seduce me , each and every move in love , romance and sex , the girl has to take the initiative first and I am not going to make any first move !!! If the girl loves me then she has to PROVE IT !!!

  30. Samantha

    On April 3, 2009 at 8:38 pm

    its all true.. im a capricorn, and im a girl.. and its all true.. i dont like sayng in though.. its kinda… i dont know…. blah… but its all true.. i like it

  31. Geen

    On April 6, 2009 at 11:13 pm

    I really like this Cap. man. I’m a Pisces. We always have a great tim together. he knows it, and so do I. He just doesn’twant to bewith me. I think h thinks I am good enough for mental stimulation. Often he jokingly asks would I marry him. I say no if he won’ come to church. Why does he keep asking me this?

  32. Dawn

    On April 8, 2009 at 3:21 pm

    My bf is a Cap man. I’m a a Sagitarius, which is his opposite, I believe. The relationship did start of slow and we became friends. We initiated things after 4 months and he became my bf soon after. I think he is funny, motivated, caring, sincere, and sooo manly. I truly feel like a woman when I am around him. He has mentioned marriage and I feel that we both have issues that we need to work on individually as well as separately. I keep saying no….of course not…but something is telling me that maybe I should start telling this man ..yes..because I feel maybe I’m hurting his feelings? I care for him deeply but am skeptical because I’ve been hurt in the past. He keeps mentioning love but doesn’t say he loves me..yet.. How do you know if a cap man is in love?

  33. nina

    On April 15, 2009 at 7:50 am

    I fell inlove with a cap online. We started out chatting so much, learning everything about each other. He would ask me if I loved him, I said yes and he said he loved me too. Then he asked if I would come to his wedding, I said yes and when I asked him he said no and refused to tell me why not. Then then the next day he told me maybe he wants me for himself. And then he asked if I would share a bed with him and I ansewered I don’t share my bed with just anybody. I made a state enemy, he refused to take my calls, hardly speak to me when online. He’s so hurtful and I don’t know what to do. I’m a capricorn as well, but would be more open if someone would wabt to apologise to me. I want to be with him, but at the moment I’m just ready to give up.

  34. Jewels

    On April 19, 2009 at 7:30 am

    Wise capricorn, that sounds very cruel to me. I am in love with a capricorn. He is my colleague whom I had not even noticed before our last christmas party at work. He had been in a relationship then and I am not sure when this relationship ended. After the christmas party I started to pay more attention to him and I noticed that he was always looking at me, he was always smiling at me. And I smiled back but I never dared to approach him ‘cuz I did not want to rush into anything, I thought he needed some more time.
    But a couple of days ago I coincidentally found out that he is moving to work in our firm’s office in a different city. I was shocked.. I asked him when he was leaving and he said as soon as he found an appartment and that he made this decition just three weeks ago. I am dying, I just don’t know what to do. I really don’t want him to leave but what can I do? He will be 250 miles away. I am devastated.. seems like I mean nothing to him.

  35. Daniela

    On April 25, 2009 at 11:57 pm

    I was born on a cusp, im a capricorn sadge, and my fiance now is a saggitarious!! usually we tend to stray from the sadge, I was married to a taurus, BORING. I am ambitious and boring which made the saggitarious, all the more interesting,Plus my taurus cheated! which is a no go! Just in case, your wondering on matches i was unhappy with taurus but had financial secruity and security in itself thats what made me stay. Until he cheated. With the sadge it’s different because we do tihngs exciting together but sometimes his views interfier with mine, but trying really hard to be tolerant, The fact though is that i have more fun and trust with him, and the fact that i was apprehensive that gave him the room he needed, he alwasy chased me, even though sadges are known to run with the “COMMITEMENT WORD” so it works out for us for now, were only engaged i dont want to marry yet jaja, but hes in a hurry to, but im the one postponing until im certain. But just for the record, amazing love, amazing time, and conversation! unlike with my x the taurus we hardly spoke we had routine but nothing exciting and he was a cheater.

  36. Ebby

    On April 28, 2009 at 8:51 pm

    I’ve known a capricorn for over 10 years, and he’s like my bestest friend..and I now here we are teenagers, growing up now boyfriend and girlfriend. I am a lovely scorpio, and he is a fellow capricorn. And were both so much alike, and the connection is just incredible. When were alone, it’s like paradise, and it’s just so beautiful and peaceful. He’s drawn to me, and I’m drawn to him. We often tell eachother how attracted we are to one another. And we hardly ever get enough of eachothers company. He’s just so romantic, a HARDWORKER, ambitious yesss, and very determined, focused, and has a beautiful heart, and can be very affectionate and extremely loving. I adore him, and I hope we stay strong, and that we stay together for a verrryyy long time.! ♥♥♥

  37. keen sag

    On May 7, 2009 at 12:30 pm

    I found this article very enlightening. I’m REALLY keen on a capricorn guy I met online a few months ago. We’ve only recently (past 2 months) started talking nearly every evening when he comes from work.

    Initially I got very put-off by his coldness, he just didn’t give off that vibe that says “i’m interested even just a teeny bit” lol. He is very intelligent, to the point where his words baffle me, but I like the challenge – so I’ve been debating with him back! I think he likes this.

    One thing for sure, he’s got be keem, hooked, everything. He’s very good looking, professional, physically fit and very ambitious and loves his job!

    I’d like to get to know him more…PATIENCE is defintely key I think. So i’ll just hang in there and try and show him my heart – even if he has a wall around his. x

  38. number seven

    On May 24, 2009 at 10:47 am

    I am a true cap born jan 7, I am a gay male who is still getting to know me, I am working on shedding insecurties. I usually attract people who simply do not understand me, I am not a control freak!I just like being in control of me, being able to handle the many difficulties of being a capricorn. Any capricorn can tell you it is hard being a cap, I think we were cursed.I am 32 and I feel like I am getting alot better at depending on people(really a difficult task) and communicating my inner feelings.We caps have to learn to stop worrying about tomorrow and focus on today,learn to let people in and learn to let our hair down.We are great people with great hearts, so for the confuse partners try and learn to be patient with us!

  39. horny goat

    On May 28, 2009 at 11:04 am

    It is enjoyable reading these responses. I am a Capricorn man. My first wife was a beautiful Virgo and I regret forever the mistakes I made in that relationship. Though we were young. Now I am with a Scorpio and it is very hard for us to both be in control at once, so there is often underlying little battles to control one another. She is more sneaky than I am and wins more. Well, lately anyway. It makes me retreat into my head where I weigh everything up, live out my fantasies, correct my lifes failures, consult my inner monologue, become a better person, and devote my love and pride to myself. If I feel generous then I will cast some sweet satisfying feeling her way. Maybe it sounds selfish, but it is the most rewarding thing to be a Capricorn in a mucked up world. Self reliant and non-dependent, though my girlfriend would say she does alot for me (and she does, though I think it is a trick half the time!)It is hard to explain to others. Pride. You can’t take that away.
    The idea of being forced to express my deep feelings to lovers, who I may not trust, or to be made to feel that other peoples insecurities/vulnerabilities are my own and I should treat them as such is very off-putting. I will wait patiently and in my own sweet time express myself, make commitments, help others, even love, it will be my choice, I wont be backed into a hole, and I won’t appreciate my freedom being taken away. We are fun too, by the way. Highly sexual and well mannered. Just need some room to move.

  40. Elaine

    On June 7, 2009 at 8:55 pm

    Well I like this article so much, it reminds me of my X girlfriend, we broke up ’cause i loose her trust. Well I’m Libra who loves to “Flirt” according to my zodiac sign, and my girl is a capricorn who’s a serious one.
    I define capricorn as hard to predict, she is somewhat afraid of admiting things like falling in love, she doesnt like to cuddle or everything, she doesnt speak out a lot, the thing or the attitude that draws me closer to her, it made me wanna kow her better, but it seems like my charms aren’t effective,LOL.
    Right now I’m trying to win her back,we ended up without even saying goodbye to eachother, I’m trying to reach out for her, I’m asking her too if she wants me to stop on winning her back, I’m asking her if she still loves me, but Capricorns are the type who doesnt show their true feelings. I know, and I can still feel that she loves me, but her attitude of afraid to trust in love that much, is the thing that makes it complicated, but i’ll still try to win her back, though according to our zodiac sign we arent a good match. But there’s no harm in trying.

  41. Capri's girl,..dealing with my girl karla

    On June 7, 2009 at 9:05 pm

    Hi I’ve read on the thread that there’s someone who had been inlove with a capricorn OL (keen sag).
    LOL that was very true, it’s so hard to deal with capricorn’s, they we’re smart, serious, deep and everything attitudes tha are hard to deal with, but they’re so lovable and irrisistable.
    I love my girl so much, I thank God that I’m a libra who loves to talk a lot since she was a quite and serious type, conversation with her havent turned out that boring.
    She opened up to me, atlast after a hundreds of my stories she give a bit sharing ’bout her life, I love her and I know that shes the one, but how am I going to win her back if she’s afraid to admit to herself that shes actually falling inlove with me too.

    PAtience..a key, ill try to remember that!!! Cheers :)

  42. crappy cappy

    On June 17, 2009 at 9:25 pm

    im a Capricorn female 24th dec.
    i have a question…. do any other Capricorns find they are very conscious of themselves in public?
    im a bit of a hermit because i find most peoples company uncomfortable, i have 1 close friend whom i love.
    i think i have social anxiety and i wonder how much of the astrological assessment of Capricorns relate to personality or is that just an environmental or psychological consequence.


    On June 17, 2009 at 9:29 pm

    Im a lesbian and im a capricorn and would love to meet someone sooooooooon.

    i wonder are some signs more prone to gayness than others… LOL

  44. kay

    On June 21, 2009 at 7:34 am

    i am a married cap women,my husband is scorpio,initially everthing was glorius we were like house on fire.then he started controlling me very suffocating and mistreating me .being capri ,did not want to let go of the stable life.met this sweet and lovely cancer man feel in love easily he fell in love with me.did not tell i was married and since did not know much about this cancer man and not wanting to cheat or leave my stable home went away ,he was heartbroken did not know what hit him.went away recently married ,i am still living like a dead person yearning for him enduring the scorpios cruelty

  45. m

    On June 21, 2009 at 7:36 am

    missing u tauseef only person i have ever loved in all my 35 years.know u r married u cant forget u still yearning for u.dont know if i ever will get over u .living in pain.

  46. kate

    On June 22, 2009 at 7:03 pm

    ok here it is . i have a crush over probably a lesbian cap. i do not even know if she were. i am totally fascinated by her , when are around each other it is sparks , it is a jolt of electricity that freaks us both out , we both become totally consumed with this VIBE. i am cap woman myself . but it is just so hard to pick on her signals. she is confusing me . i find it very hard to think like her though i am cap myself .

    i know it is tough to get a cap. to speak up . and i know how her mind works . but i am just to anxious unlike me . trust me , i have always been purused never the pursuer . but now i am stuck can not hunt nor do i feel hunted enough . it is really tough . to be cap is a hard and to fall for one is harder .

  47. Serious Capri

    On June 24, 2009 at 12:59 pm

    Lesbianism is a sin…turn now and repent. Remember what happened to those people in the bible?? Capricorns are not prone to lesbianism…its just you.

  48. cap cap cap

    On July 9, 2009 at 12:04 am

    I\’m a male capricorn and my life sucks. I feel alone and I have a really negative and pessimistic view of life. I say to myself that someday I\’ll be great and that everybody will be jealous of myself but at the same time I feel so weak, and my pride is suffocating me. I wish I was a small kid again,life was so much easier, and I didn\’t have to do a thing to be loved.

  49. TRUE CAP

    On July 14, 2009 at 3:50 pm


  50. I'm a Cancer Daaaawling...

    On July 23, 2009 at 3:50 pm

    I find this article to be pretty on the money. I’ve been dating a capricorn for almost a year now known him for almost three. When we first met he was very quiet and serious. I honestly thought he found me (A cancer) to be a bit out there and shocking. I could see it on his face and I knew it made him uncomfortable. As time went on he began to very very excruciatingly slow open up. Capricorns really don’t trust or love easily. You have got to be so patient, understanding and supportive. They act like nothing bothers them but alot does. They don’t like talking about emotions too much and don’t try to force them to they will just clam up and get tongue tied. They however LOVE when you talk about your feelings for them. Dont get too sensitive when all they say back is “really” or ” i appreciate that you’re so sweet”..they do really appreciate it just aren’t as poetic as a pisces of Libra. I feel they are worth the wait it gets soooooo much better with time. I feel many of them have big dreams and will eventually succed. Some tips on keeping in a cap’s good books are: dont be trashy,loud, ghetto, classless. ambitionless, or forceful. They care how u make them look. As well you know u got them when they start acting goofy and more giddy than you. Trying to see you often and kissing u randomly ont he forehead and cheek. They will support u and give u career pointers. They are very focused on their own work so if they take even a moment to advise u or critic ur efforts towards urs they care. Talk about ur career moves and encourage him to go after his/hers. Caps are also kinda pirde filled..when arguments happen don’t always wait for them to call back they hate looking vulnerable but really deep inside want to talk things out. Most are diplomatic and willing to come to a happy medium. Ummmm be secy, discreet, teach them new things and be patient. Eventually you will have him calling u so often u will feel like ur dating a totally different man. Oh being great in bed and your career helps too (smile)

  51. Michael

    On July 29, 2009 at 12:45 am

    Its so true, I am a cappy guy and was pretty sure this cancer girl likes me. I try asking her out by putting these letter in her locker. She ended up giving my teacher those letter and I felt heart broken. Over the summer, I started to heal by laying on my bed all day long, I decided to build a big ass wall around my heart with barbwire on the top, good luck getting over girl. :-(

  52. MANAM

    On August 2, 2009 at 9:42 am

    i am capricon and loving with other capricon i dont know that he loves me or not but i lve hm more than any other lves hm sme tmes when i think about his tkng wat he says when we talk to another i tnk he lve me ya but wat can i do i hve no any way to tlk hm wat i do i dnt kno iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiin llllllllllllllllooooooooooovvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee hm so much………………

  53. manam

    On August 2, 2009 at 9:45 am

    Who can understand the nature of a Capricorn better than another Capricorn? Both the
    individuals think from their mind, rather than their heart. They are very practical and down
    to earth and always have clear-cut aims in their life. Capricorns believe in striving slowly
    and steadily towards their goals, all the time determined not to lose sight of their goal and
    reach there before anyone else. They are extremely reliable, loyal and trustworthy.
    They display extreme sincerity in everything they do and are very mature.

    When two Capricorns get together, whether in a business partnership or in a love
    relationship, you can be sure that there is nothing in this world that they will not be able to
    achieve. Though it may take time, but success will definitely be at their doorstep. However,
    since both of them hide their true feelings behind a mask of too much seriousness, their
    relationship may become too monotonous and boredom may start creeping in.
    Their emotional detachment may wipe up all the signs of warmth or compatibility from the
    zodiac match.

    Two Capricorns, in a love relationship, will have to make deliberate efforts to stop thinking
    about their responsibilities all the time and start spending time with each other. In
    conversations too, they should try to keep out the mundane talk and indulge in a frivolous,
    but romantic, chit-chat. They need to let go of their inhibitions once in a while and indulge
    in child-like activities and amusements. This will make sure that their relationship does not
    get reduced to somber moments only and there is always something to look forward to

  54. MANAM

    On August 2, 2009 at 9:51 am

    TO ALL U DEAR………………….
    UNTIL I DIE………………………
    I W8 FR U

  55. manam

    On August 2, 2009 at 9:54 am

    woh dil hi kya tere milne ki jo dua na kare
    main tujh ko bhool ke zinda rahoon khuda na kare

    rahe ga sath tera piyar zindagi ban kar
    yeh aur baat meri zindagi wafa na kare

    yeh theek hai nahi marta koi judai main
    khuda kisi se kisi ko magar juda na kare

    suna hai us ko muhabbat duaien deti hai
    jo dil pe chot to khaye magar gila na jare

    zamana dekh chuka hai parakh chuka hai use
    qateel jaan se jaye magar iltija na kare

  56. Dark Capricorn

    On August 13, 2009 at 12:33 am

    Hi, 2 all da capricorn’s out there i am a capricorn risign, sun and moon. i known i have a lot of capricorn in me and it is true i attract people that don’t have a clue wat i represent and i am. i like respect and loyalty from friends and i give da same back. Well i have encounter many cancer mean of sign in my life is like they r following me. Well i still don’t get a clue about cancer’s sign cause i don’t like emotional people much i don’t feel right around them cause they confuse u. i have notice that capricorn and cancer encounter during da summer da must i have experience it they act weird sometimes . i read that capricorn and cancer attract each other alot and that’s a big problem cause they are opposite in da zodiac chart meaning there personality are like hot and cold.Well if u want 2 understand capricorn’s i explain everything there is 2 know just hit me up at AIM: capricornxd. i think this article is right about capricorn we avoid falling in love cause r heart have been broken before an we r scare 2 death 2 get hurt again that why we don’t open up.

  57. heartbroke cancer

    On October 1, 2009 at 3:44 am

    I dated a Cap man for about 2 months. I am a cancer woman. I was totally head over heels for him. I told him plenty of times. We both just came out of serious relationships and we moved very quickly and I admit, I got really scared and pushed him away. I had to side step for a while and figure out if he was really worth my time. I did come back and contact him after about a week and we talked several times. He seemed o want to see me and I certainly wanted to see him. I kept trying to see him and only got the run around. I had to protect my heart so I shut him down and told him he had competition. Later when I saw him he made a total fool of himself and flirted with my friend at the bar. That was enough for me. I am devastated and hurt. He left me a message saying he didn’t mean to hurt me and admitted he had been talking to his ex. Then he sent a text later that night. He asked me to call him, so I do and all I get is a text saying it’s done and he doesn’t want anything serious. Totally confusing and I feel pretty sick about the whole thing. When we were together everything was great. i could be myself and had no problems opening up to him in any way, physically or emotionally. All the signs were there that he was totally into me as well and I was sure that I wanted to be single but I also didn’t want to give up what I had found. Now I can only wonder if he will be back or if this really is done. It all seems so hasty. All I can say is, there wasn’t one thing I would have changed about this Cap man and he could have had a woman with a heart of gold, her own bankroll, and a sex kitten in the sheets. I have no idea how to get him back and frankly I am scared of being rejected so I won’t even attempt to contact him. I admit I probably came on way to strong but I would have calmed down had he just said he needed to figure things out. He did say he wanted to take it slow but never said he didn’t want anything serious. I can’t help that I love him, even now when I’m heartbroke I just love him. I have never felt this way about any man and usually have no problem walking away with my head held high. I can’t understand why when a man finds a woman who is so into him he reciprocates and then poof… breaks it off. It’s so confusing to me.

  58. Jason-Gemini

    On October 4, 2009 at 11:51 am

    I had a Capricorn crush .And she crushed me back.

    After some problem .She ignored me completely .

    I don’t know how to win her heart back :( .

    She likes a Leo that drives me MAD.


  59. simmyvanna

    On November 20, 2009 at 10:51 pm

    I am a Gemini Female thatmet a Capricorn male 2 months ago. The chemistry we had from the beginning was unbelivable!! While we do have unbelievable chemistry he is very reserved with his feelings which can be very challenging for me because as a Gemini I am very open with mine. As a Gemini being very open, it’s hard for me to put mine out there and not get a lot back, then wonder does he feel the same way. But when we’re together the sparks fly and there’s no denying the way we feel when we’re together and with everything I’ve read about Capricorns he fits the bill on everything dead on. If me being a Gemini and me being open all the time about my feelings makes him feel great about himself then hey, I’m gonna do it. I love making him feel great about himself, that’s what love is all about, and little by little I see him coming out with his feelings a little more every day, and I’m absolutely loving it. I can’t wait to see where this takes us, I hope to prove the sun signs wrong because the sun signs say we’re incompatable, but whew, am I crazy about him, and he says he’s very optomistic about me, so hey, I’m going all in!

  60. sanorita

    On January 24, 2010 at 10:47 am

    hey i am a capricon girl and its exactly the same. its really a nice article.

  61. Anna

    On January 29, 2010 at 4:21 pm

    I was reading all the comments wondering how come they’re all so alike in their attitude… I’m an Aries lady. I’ve met my Cap guy 7 month ago. I was dating with someone for a long time and Cap knew all about it. Nevertheless this passion and sparkles and everything… well, I’ve parted with that someone, living in a long distance from my Cap absolutely lonely and having messed my life seriously. Couldn’t forget him. Afterwards we were involved in the online love story and each time we met each other those feelings grew stronger and higher. And the most sincere words I’ve heard from him were “I was missing you”. And the girl – Cancer Daaaawling…- describes all these signs of Cap’s carefull attraction perfectly… Although he always leaves me like it’s the last time we see each other. Nothing serious he tells me all the time, being darkly sad. And making me feel like flying and falling down at the same time. Though I feel that he just trying to escape, afraids of feelings or any serious relations. Always analyzing, hesitating… And you can imagine this even more in some geometrical progression cos we have to move to smth serious to be together (different countries…, different native languages, etc.). And each time I’m frustrated and trying to forget him after tears and some sleepless nights. Saying “bye” everutime. And at this very moment he starts everything again. And I’m impatient. And I can’t wait all the time of his indulgence and these encounters. It humiliates me greatly. And I can’t move on with my life. And I know he is trying to forget me and also can’t stop himself. So do I…

  62. Vikas

    On April 22, 2010 at 10:34 am

    I am a Capricorn guy and have been with two amazing and fulfilling realtions..both with Cancer woman ! I love Cancer woman! They are sssssoooo nice. Met a few Scorpio girls. Found them to be horrible. Cap guys – better dont go for Scorpio woman unless you are rrreeeaaaalllyy sure you get along well. Have been attracted to Taurus and Pisces woman as well..though it never turned out to be a relationship. But Cancer is lovely !

  63. Belle

    On June 3, 2010 at 4:49 pm

    I’m a 26 yo female gemini having feelings for a 31 yo capricorn man. He’s the cutest, sweetest and I don’t only feel a close connection on the mental level, but the physical attraction is almost unbearable. He just seems incredible attractive and sexy to me and I just can’t get him out of my head. I get the feeling he’s interested and trusts me, but I never saw an extra attention that would confirm any feelings for me. He told me he has been single (and even without a woman) for years now, never had a serious relationship and has some trust issues.
    I’m so confused about what to do, sometimes we do stuff together and I ask him constantly to go out, but he doesn’t reciprocate with suggesting activities. We have lots in common, we go out to the same places, do similar sports, make similar trips, study the same stuff… Yet he didn’t ever ask me to do some of this stuff together. I feel like I’m stalking him, making dumb excuses to see him, like getting his notes. Should I withdraw myself or should I be more direct with him, I’m really lost. Is this the impenetrable capricorn exterior I have to cope with and take matter in my own hands, or is he just really not that into me?

  64. DarkCap

    On July 8, 2010 at 6:23 pm

    am a capricorn and found many links related to cap man and i read a few that sound like me the key words are “capricorn and bf” and u would get alot of articles
    To get a capricorn to fall in love: you must shower him with endless attention. Make him the center of your world and hold nothing back. Your goal is to show him that you are trustworthy and can take care of his tender heart. Trying to make him jealous or playing foolish games with him will only cause distance between you two. The Capricorn man wants a genuine woman who will love and adore him just the way he is.

  65. Cappy Gal

    On August 20, 2010 at 9:43 am

    ma guy…taurian….luv him…told him abt it…he luved me too…misunderstandings cropped up…nothing started….n now we aren’ friendz either…messed up like hell…i know he luvs me bt he’s stubborn….never opens up…ma mistake…feel so vulnerable….i din want him 2 get close….so confessed abt ma luv after 1 whole year…n now broken heart…can’ forget him…

  66. Jacquie

    On August 25, 2010 at 1:14 am

    Everything in that article is pretty spot on. I’m a Capricorn lady, I would know :P But here’s something that wasn’t included (it may seem off topic at first, but I’m sure quite a few people would agree with this.)

    Something important for people to know is the “Angry Capricorn”: I know for myself, I become the most cruel person ever. I freeze people out, and make them feel as guilty as possible for anything they may have done to me that I felt was over-the-top in terms of meanness. If I feel you have done me wrong, you WILL know. This is kind of terrifying if you’re in a relationship with them and are on the receiving end of this treatment.

    I’ve also made some of the most horrible remarks to my brothers when they were mean to me, and I’m mortified at myself to this day for even thinking of saying them. Any comment that I make, I make it rationally, in the sense that I’ve pinpointed exactly what will damage the person I’m dealing with the most emotionally. The eldest of my younger brothers, M (aries male), was calling me really piggish names and being an a**hole, and I told him “You’re never at Papa’s (our grandfather at the time who was dying of several cancers), and he’s dying. I hope you regret it every day of your life that you didn’t say goodbye before he dies.” He died a week later, and M hadn’t seen him to say goodbye. If life were a video game, we would be the ones who always aim for the heart to get a direct kill, though we always feel terrible for doing it afterwards. I guess my emotions just tend to get the best of me when I’m angry (but it only seems to happen when I’m angry.)

    My moods are quite volatile and my words will always cut like a knife, filled with passive agression and a coldness that could chill your very being. It’s also worse if we’re depressed when we say those things (which I often was, and why I was in such a bad mood in the first place. Go figure :\ But that still is no excuse, I know!)

    BUT: Rarely anyone has felt my true anger and I always joke about how I hope no one has to witness it (though deep down I know it will eventually happen to some unfortunate soul). Even though I can be very mean, it takes A LOT to get me to that point. I’m far too patient for anyone I know to even imagine me being the way I previously described. Anyhow, this is just a kind of warning to those trying to piss off a Capricorn. DON’T DO IT!!! D:

  67. Capricorn Beauty

    On September 10, 2010 at 5:09 am

    I am a Capricorn girl and I came across an old high school friend (who happens to be a Capricorn as well) and we had casual sex one night…after our encounter, he starts blowing my phone up with texts messages telling me how much he digs me and we should strengthen out friendship…I was cool with that…so 4 days later he texts me saying he misses me and wants to see me again…I played ‘unavaliable’ and he seemed cool with it…at first…
    he stops texting me completely… 2 weeks later I text him to ask if he wanted to come over, and at first he was like YEAH!…but soon changed his story to “sorry I’m going out later” Payback???
    so after that, I stopped texting/calling him…and he finally broke down and texted me saying “it doesn’t have to be like this” lol…fast forward a couple days….I sent him a text just saying ‘hi’ and he promptly replied ‘hey’….5 minutes later…he asks if I would be his GF…I WAS SHOCKED! so I said yes….fast forward to now…he rarely calls or texts me…I never see him because he always breaks our dates (gives valid reasons though)…and when he does text me…its pictures of him (fishing for compliments)…I don’t understand! and so ready to give up! uhhh!

  68. marlisse

    On October 30, 2010 at 6:25 am

    hmm , i have fallen for a capricorn quite hard. its pretty weird because i dont fall fast or hard. i am a virgo woman by the way, but cappy confuses the hell out of me. seems like he likes me then he doesnt then he does and idk its complicated. we started talking like 5-6 months ago but stopped talkin for like a 2 months cuz i lost my phone n he changed his number. now that we talk again its weird, we used to text alot and now were texting n its all good then he just stops replying which annoys mee, he always just stops without saying anything. its not the same as it was before, i know that, but how can i get it to be like before? when he used to let me know he liked meee, only meee. he was very thoughtful in many ways, but when we were in public u couldnt tell there was something between us if yu just glance at us, but some people noticed from the way we looked at each other. and i loved it. everything about him. especially how he seems like an underdog, but is really the one who runs things. always planning for the future, putting people in their place, status is important to him. we only had a sexuaal encounter once, and it was amazing. so much passion between us. he makes mee soooo happy without even trying. the scary thing is that were just “in touch” and he drives me crazy, always runnin through my mind.


    -virgo woman

  69. marlisse

    On October 30, 2010 at 6:33 am

    i just want him to be mineee, or at least know that he might be one day. i know i can make him happyyyy, very happyy. PLUS we look cute together :) lol

  70. Confused Leo girl

    On December 30, 2011 at 2:42 am

    I was dating a Capricorn man for 5 months and thought everything

    was going fine and one day i got blind sided, all of a sudden he

    started ignoring my texts and being short with them when he did

    reply. I couldn’t understand what was going on because when he

    would text me back he would say that everything was ok. Well after

    about a week and a half of this B.S. i finally got up the nerve to ask

    if he didnt want to see me anymore and he basically said no but not

    in those words. Idk what a weirdo! Im never gonna date another

    Cap again.

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