Love Between Men and Women

It is natural that men and women attract to each other, as the magnets. The difference is that magnets have no thoughts and no ability to be reasonable, but we can. Magnets can be attracted to any one with opposite polarity, but we cannot marry any one of the opposite sex that we meet.

When I got the news that one friend of mine broke the happiness of two families, I think that it is necessary for me to write something about the love between men and women, which may help to reduce this kind of tragic things around us. Some of us complain about marriage all day, and it seems that there are always regrets in our marriage. One of the regrets is that we didn’t get our favorite marriage. I have to say that it is a pity, but not all of us can have our favorite marriage. Some of us may find our favorite, but they could not get along with each other. Favorite is not to say that we can perfect match. Actually, perfect match is always not our favorite. “Grass is greener over the hedge.” Many of us think that the other woman or man is more suitable for us. It is not the case, if we are reasonable enough.

Therefore, there is no excuse to destroy another’s family by so-called better match. When we get married in a church, what would we say to each other? “For better or for worse” What does it mean? Be slow in choosing a man or woman as your other partner, and slow to change it. It is always the best to have a life-time marriage, right? Even parrots can keep their marriage for a life time, can’t we do it?

What if we find our favorite one in life, but it is late. He or she has been married. My suggestion is that we have to accept the fact. Each family should keep on with their happy life. What’s more, the best one for our match in our eyes may not think that we are the best for him or her. Right?

Just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to, you cannot say that he or she doesn’t love you with all he or she has. Even among friends, we cherish mutual understanding. We have no reason to break up a marriage easily. Try to find the problems, and solve them. This is the best policy. Each family has some conflicts, sometimes. There is no all-time peace family around the world.