Love Can Always be Sweet

Yes, love can always be sweet, but it is usually bitter or sour at best.
It is disheartening to find out that the enthusiasm we put into attracting the love of our spouses when we first meet nose dive after some few meetings.
Actually, the burning fire in our hearts seldom lasts but cools after some nice times and finally dies some few months or years,at most, in the developed world while lovers merely tolerated one another in the developing ones.
Should be so? No. Rather, love life should be a long life adventure where couples can continue to explore the infinite mysteries that lies in the phenomenon called love.
How can we make love sweet?
Firstly, we must strive to renew what attracted us the our partners the first time so that we can always keep the fire of love burning eternally. Is it the smile of your partner that attracted him/her to you? Why don’t you continue to make him/her happy so that he/she can continue to smile and you too can be happy. You know happiness is contagious.
Secondly, Find out interests you spouse and continue to do it for him/her. If you do this, your spouse will find a way of reciprocating. Oh you think your spouse is selfish? Check out first if you are not the selfish and the guilty party.
Thirdly and finally for this discourse, learn to be selfless. Consider your spouse first before thinking of your interest or yourself when taking decisions on what affects the two of you,you will not regret it.
When you do all this it unlikely that you will hurt your spouse’s feelings for long. It ensure your love waxes stronger.
However, this is not a guarantee that that there will not be minor challenges. Turn the challenges to opportunities that will make your love soar into higher glory by:
*Accepting that there is a problem that is caused by a mistake;
*The guilty party should accept responsibility and the partner makes the mistake lighter by assuring the guilty party that problem is not as bad as the offending party thinks;
*Listen to each others views;
*Reach a compromise on how best to solve the problem;
*Learn from the problem; and
*Forget it for live!