Love: Fact or Fiction?

ok, first time doing something like this, but i’m sure i know enough to be able to combat the reasons for love, and how it all works. so here goes.

Ok the emotional side of things, boy upsets girl, girl upsets boy argument breaks out due to volatile behaviour this happens in any normal friendship, everything that’s come to show from a relationship happens in a friendship, bringing me to my point, Is love, Fact, or Fiction? a mind set, a simple way of thinking an emotion that only exists in your head, well, maybe i’ll bring it to some sort of conclusion.

pleasure in pain, abusive relationships, mind boggeling, head thrashing ABUSIVE relationships, spending your life with a companion that leads you to self harm, just so they can’t hurt you as much. People even commit suicide due to their partners abusive ways, sometimes even children are born into these relationships raised seeing their parents fight & argue, where’s the love in that? i’ll tell you, it’s in the frightened man/womans head because either partner doing the manipulating and head screwing leads them to belive they love them, and they grow a strange attraction, and can’t get out of it, that’s how people end up dead, so i ask you again, is Love Fact, or Fiction?

Let’s get onto the passionate side of things. some share a binding relation/lust that leads to sexual intercourse through passionate ‘love’ but yet, atleast 60% of sexual relations are 1 night stands caused by drunken relations & the ‘beer goggles’ a technicality towards this is most mens brains are in their penis, so cheating/lying happens, so, then again what’s the point in being in a relationship when you’re going to lie and cheat. When you can easily stay single and do all that without the guilty concious so does love revolve around children, sex, money & sitting in at night/watching a DVD sharing your problems? could you easily stay friends with everyone avoid the arguments and tie downs & the guilty concious, is love just a mind set, a 4 letter word that consists of l-o-v-e letting-overly-vindictive-elemets get into your head? i’d say yes, many will argue, but in the end, it doesn’t even matter.

Ok my theory is, is that it’s all mind set, you think you love someone, but yet you’re just sharing a frienship nothing more, maybe in the past people devloped this ‘love’ through chronological reasoning and persuasion of the mind through giving people what they want, i mean you can actually get drunk off of non-alchaholic beer, if you’re lead to belive it’s alchaholic, you can get high off of a normal cigarette, if you’re lead into beliveing it contains herbal drugs/powdered, everything is in your head, so maybe love’s just another thing you’re lead into beliveing, and not actually feeling it. So in the end it’s all friendship? i soupose we’ll never really know.

Love…what a complicated thing.

thank you for reading, i’d like to see your points of view and any advise for the next part of this, as there’s alot more to it than just the down side.