Love: Friend or Foe?

 A famous song writer once wrote the trouble with love is, it can tear u up inside and make your heart believe a lie, its stronger than your pride.and the  reason for her success?? is it rang true with nearly every individual that heard it,I’m yet to come across anyone that cannot rela/avoid a broken hearte to that one line in that ever so popular song.. as we grow up we are always taught that when we hurt someone we must say sorry, and then we automatically have a ‘ its ok ‘   response. But i ask.. when did we start questioning the response when did ‘its  OK ‘ not become enough. and what possible words or actions will make it …well OK. forgiveness is a difficult thing but experience shows us time is a healer and time will unveil all. if we don’t try to forgive how will we ever know? that’s when regrets start and surely giving up time, as precious as it is..is better than to wonder the shoulder/ woulders. Hearts break but are fixed, weather at the time you believe it or not. Its been proved time and time again.

If you were allowed one question to be answered what would you choose? is there a god? is there heaven? mine and many other woman out there in questionable relationships will ask…Am i the one? His penguin. Penguins go all there lives finding there soul mate and until they die remain with there partner. I believe in soul-mates but i don’t believe that your soul mate will think of you the same. I don’t believe in happy ever afters however much i dream it to be true. Life is not a Disney film. I believe in a unmistakable connection to another, the kind you will do anything for, forgive no matter how hard the betrayal. In time the memory of your heart break will fade, it will never disappear for that’s what makes you who you are. We go to school and learn and at the end we take a test but in life we are tested and the result is how we learn.

Does love does conquer all? and is it more powerful then people truly know? Because after all if you would end your life to save the one you love then….whats more powerful than that? Friends of mine always ask what should i do? do you think hes cheating? shall i just walk away? i say take the plunge, swallow your pride and pass your dignity to the side. Because love will always over rule all these things, and the more we try to resist the more stronger it will become. No matter how hard you try and help another out which involves a member of the opposite  sex, 90% of the time they will not take your advice, or pretend to as there texting away to the one person your trying so desperately to guide them away from.

love can warm the  coldest of hearts and bring hope to those who have yet to find there “one” but a very wise teacher once told me to write what i know, and in the short few years of my adult life i have come across the hardest most evilest of relationships with only the slight glimmer of a silver lining but it is this lining that you and i will cling to to, hope..its unmistakeable. so the question…is it really better to have loved then lost?