Love is a Prison for Confined Happiness

Love, like all other relationships, restricts liberties of the two partners to a great extent. So, love is like a prison to be enjoyed like that of a cozy bedding during a cold winter. So, prison is not a bad thing if it is in the arms of a beloved.   

Love is not a thing of pleasure but may prove to be a bitter pill that provides relief later and in the long run in the form of an everlasting happiness. Thus, losing a transient pleasure in the process of loving some one is worth of the pains involved. Life is long enough therefore, one should look for long term happiness rather than short-term pleasures. A real love surely provides that. Thus, love prevents you from having instant pleasures which may be alluring, therefore feels like a prison.  

Doubts prove to be the most poisonous to a loving relationship therefore, both need to take utmost care not to provide any opportunity to the other through their respective conducts, particularly in a new and developing relationship. It is not only that they should be loyal to each other, but this loyalty should be well-demonstrated for sustenance of the relationship. Regulation of one’s conduct for this purpose is the severest test for the love to prosper. This restriction of the conduct of the self is works just like a prison as you are required to conduct yourself for the pleasure of the other.

Mutual trust is a must for a love relationship to flourish. It can not be provided by any on his/her own will, instead, it has to be earned by the other. Once it is earned by both, chances of doubts diminish and the demonstrative restriction of the conducts gets slackened. Then blossoms the freedom within the cage of love.

<script type=”text/javascript”>

  var _gaq = _gaq || [];

  _gaq.push(['_setAccount', 'UA-27004525-1']);

  _gaq.push(['_setDomainName', '.triond.com']);

  _gaq.push(['_trackPageview']);

  (function() {

    var ga = document.createElement(’script’); ga.type = ‘text/javascript’; ga.async = true;

    ga.src = (’https:’ == document.location.protocol ? ‘https://ssl’ : ‘http://www’) + ‘.google-analytics.com/ga.js’;

    var s = document.getElementsByTagName(’script’)[0]; s.parentNode.insertBefore(ga, s);

  })();

</script>