When people say love is in the air – is it really? If so, how can you see it? You can’t see air – so how can you see love? Love is also supposed to be blind but how can that be, you can only be blind by eyes not love, can you? Oh, yes you can. And only people who have either been in love or have studied love can understand what it means.

Have you ever loved someone, who you wouldn’t dare be friends with, because you don’t like their attitude? Yet you love them like crazy because they bring in you feelings that you never knew you had. And no matter who you’re with, you still think about this person. They enters your dreams unknown to you (but of course they would enter your dreams when you think about them all day – they can’t escape your sleeping brain). When you struggle to spend the whole day without their thoughts, when you can’t sleep nor rest until your head thinks about them and your heart misses them and when you feel like you just can’t go on – you know you’re insane. Insanely in love.

Love is definitely in the air. It’s a feeling that you can’t see but just feel. Just like the cool air that touches your body on a nice hot summers day. Doesn’t it feel good? That is how it feels when you breathe that same air and take it in through your body. It feels good? Anything that makes you feel that good – you can’t hate it, so you love it instead. I’m probably not making any sense, but how can I? – I am a mad lover. Lover of all the love in the world. I love to be loved, I love people, I love life, I love everything that is associated with love.

Yet, the person who I love is a total stranger to me. Once a part of my life and now no part of it. Once, we used to love each other’s company, we used to spend the whole day talking to each other and even after seeing each other nearly every second of the day – we used to miss each other. We didn’t to anything without one another and we always looked for that special moment where it could be just the two of us. Now that same feeling has been replaced with resentment, tears and pain. What happened between us was inevitable.

We were spending so much time together that we started getting sick of each other, we felt trapped in our own feelings and felt like we couldn’t breathe when we were around each other. So we decided to take a break, but that break went from days to months to now five years (obviously we were enjoying the time away from each other rather than together). We have different partners in our lives and we are much happier.

We realized how happy we could be when we separated that we didn’t even decide to get back together. But there is no doubt, that we still love each other – but that love has taken a different form now, we wouldn’t want to be friend because that would be awkward to say the least and then there is always the fact that we didn’t really like each other as friends, we had an attraction that turned to love which then turned to impatience, pain and hatred.

We remember our good times and want to be together again but then we remember our bad times and we are happy with the way life is now. We wouldn’t be good friends as we were good lovers – we know that. We love each other a lot but have learnt to move on to a better future. And a better future is separate rather than together.

Our problem was that we were trying to make friends out of lovers, but it shouldn’t be that way. We should’ve got to know each other as people, made friends and then thought about the next part of our relationship and if it was worth a try. As friends we would have been able to tell each other our true feelings and talk about the situations. When it came down to the end result the truth is, is that a true lover is also a true friend, someone we can confide in, someone we can share our feelings with, someone who makes us feel loved for who we are rather than someone who wants us to “change”.

So love surely is in the air – but it depends on the individual how they want to portray it. We can think negatively and feel bad throughout the rest of our lives or learn from our mistakes and love everything about ourselves and the opposite sex – including their personalities. Allowing time away from each other when we are in a relationship is actually more healthy than being with each other all the time.

Love truthfully is a magical moment to experience. Even when we have nothing to think about our mind wanders into the sweet dreams of a world of enchantment. It feels like we are in a fairy tale and all we can think about is being happy. When we remember the thoughts of our loved ones, we remember them in such a way that smile always spreads on our faces. A deep sigh of happiness comes from within and no matter how long it lasts it feels like the clouds are lifting us away on a world tour of pleasure and contentment. The world is full of sorrows and in the sorrows if we can search for and find happiness then life is forever valued and appreciated.

I hope that everyone experiences love and it’s pleasures. All my love to all of you.