Love Lessons (101)

The first kiss, the first night together, the first day, the first smile. We can all remember those first. We all long to have that feeling. The feeling of uncertainty, weak stomachs and knees falling in love; that’s the feeling we all love. That’s the feeling we yearn for each and every day. This is what I call the “Newness.” Do you want to know how to keep it?

It is really simple. It is not rocket science or brain surgery. It is simply remembering. Yes! That’s all remembering. For those with a bad memory like me you might want make notes when you get home after the first date. You should really listen, everything you need to know is told to you on the very first day. What she likes what she dislikes how to make up when you mess up; it’s all laid out for you on a silver platter.

Now if all this is laid out for you how can you go wrong. On the first date that is when we really talk to reach other. You tell each other what you want you want. What you expect. What you don’t expect. How to fix a problem. How to prevent a problem. Places we would like to go, things we would like to experience. If this person really means something then you should take the time to remember what they are looking for in you. Then give it to them.

Give him your time and he will do the same. Give him your love and will come back to you. Make his wishes come true and yours will. Remember that one place he really wanted to go; take him there and he will take you around the world. You know the saying “give and you shall receive,” this is where it works best; in a relationship of love. The more you give the more you will receive and the longer the “newness” will last.

All the best to you and yours.