Love Questions

There’s a lot of stuff that’s confusing in life. Most people will spend an entire lifetime searching for an ideal person, a partner in life. Very few ever find the “ideal”, but there are people who find others close to their Ideal.

The first sign of true and undying love would be: to see the other person happy, regardless of the sacrifices you have to make. If that means giving your partner up to another man/woman for him/her to be genuinely happy, then so be it. I’m talking about that “whatever it takes to make them happy” attitude.

Something like this can be confusing at first. If you haven’t met the other person, it’s not really possible to feel feelings of romantic love (You can be somewhere close to it, but the actual thing will happen only when there’s physical contact between you two) – after all, chemistry happens through proximity, right?

The key is to recognize the signs of a good potential relationship, and act upon it.

Here’s a few questions you might consider asking yourself, to see if you’re already in love without even knowing about it:

1. Am I willing to see this person happy at any cost? Even if it means sadness for me?
2. Am I willing to change some major plans in my life, make some major compromises, to be with this person?
3. Why do you even like this person at all?
4. How does he/she make you feel when you’re talking to him/her?
5. Would you (or could you) think about maybe spending the rest of your life with him/her?
6. What would happen if you ever lost this person to another man/woman or to life’s circumstances (death)? How would you feel then?

Answer those questions, and you’ll get a lot of answers that you thought you were searching for. A lot of times, the answer is inside your head. Write those answers down and read them again. Trust me, it makes a difference.