Love Rollercoaster

Isn’t it weird how people fall in love with the wrong people? This typically happens to those who are honest with their hearts. This happens to people who have big hearts. This happens to people who have a lot of love to give. This happens to people who are looking for someone to love them with the same big heart.

Vulnerable and open to receive love and someone comes around and tells them exactly what they want to hear. They are told how beautiful, wonderful, great and how much they love you and they believe it. The honest person falls in love with them. Unfortunately, the not so nice person doesn’t really care – they are just pretending to love.

Your relationship becomes an emotional rollercoaster. They begin to hurt you and then tell you they didn’t mean it and will change. Things begin to change for a while and it seems like everything is just perfect and then without notice, the person hurts you all over again. How do they hurt you? They will cheat on you, hit you, talk down to you, neglect you, not call you for days, ignore you and disgrace you.

The love you have for this person, doesn’t let you let them go. Every time they return with an apology, you take them back hoping they will change. You are hoping everything they are saying is true. You know the truth but are in denial. They change for a while and then hurt you all over again.

They will continue to hurt you because they know they can and they also know they can come back any time they want to because you will forgive them and take them back. Time to get off the rollercoaster.