Lovers or Friends
The difficulty of courting a friend.
In the above situation only one thing is clear, when we do something, we gamble. We gamble when we decide to stick in one company. We gamble when we decided to trust someone, and much more we gamble when we let our heart out in the open. The results would be varied but one thing is clear whatever we will experience as an outcome wouldn’t be possible if we haven’t gamble on to these things. Whether the woman or man make the first move both take a gamble. Gamble of entering into the relationship where you can never be sure of the outcome. For those who started out friends and wanted to cross the line, more would be at risk, if things won’t work out well for them, the friendship and their supposedly love for each other. With these in mind those who are already friends would have difficulty crossing the line and in the end suffer.
In other words crossing the boundaries of love and friendship depends on the people involve, and it requires a lot of courage to do it, especially for those who really value the friendship they have. Fears arise from a lot of factors but the bottom line of it is that they just don’t want to loss any so they play it safe. But this is what I can say, if you want to be happy, gamble a little, it would help if you learn to take a gamble, you will never know, what if at the end of all losses you will experience you will stumble on something much more important than winning.
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Post CommentJustine
On May 13, 2008 at 1:20 pm
I have had a friend before that was a boy i used to think he was really sweet he was so nice to me. But he was in a relationship and so was i at the the time i was going out with his best mate.
But i knew me and his best mate wouldn’t of lasted i never hardly saw him. I saw my friend more than him and we really got along. When my boyfriend dumped me because he thought i was cheating on him even know i weren’t.
That night my mate started texting me like he always did.
A few week later we started to flirt he really fancied me and i felt the same. He even asked me once if he dumps his girlfriend would i go out with him? But i said no because he was with his girlfriend for a year and a half before. Sometimes i wish i did say yes but i didn’t because i knew that if i did it would ruin are friendship and i also would feel really guilty because of it.
Also at the time i had really strong feelings about him i just loved to talk to him and be around him.
We still talk now even know were both are into a relationship.
Even know he still goes on about it sometimes and he always said to me you always speak to me which my girlfriend.
All i am trying to say love does’t always come your way