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Makeup Before You Breakup

The importance of forgiving mistakes in the past so you can focus on moving toward the future with no regrets about what tomorrow will bring.

There are things in this world that each person takes for granted each day. For some it’s the one we are counting on and putting all of our trust in, the shelter above us, food to nourish us, love to grow on us to pass to the next. They say “You never know what you got until it”s gone’. But what if u never had the chance to appreciate it, because you could never see it in a “clear perspective”. You could never see someone happy for longer than a second, before they broke down. Those same tears of what was mistaken for joy, was only the backup of a deep dark hidden secret.

Someone who seemed to love you so much that they could not live without you suddenly grew a belief they shall try. One second they are holding you so tight, the next they are running off before a single goodbye. The one, who would say they were so proud of you, now looks at you with disgust in their eyes. The one you thought was so honest desperately been trying balancing 50 stacks of lies.

Can you change so rapidly, that they cannot see the real you? Did they see a different girl then the same one they seen before? Or were they simply, taking you for granted that they ignored everything. Did they portray a different picture, of what they wanted or needed instead of what was standing right in front of them? Did they miss the pain past your eyes, when you would say it was alright, after each and every fight?

Every person learns and teaches by example. My question is how is anyone suppose to teach when it takes years to learn what is going on. Instead of bottling so many problems and complications I have experienced through my life, I am glad to always have those in my life that will sit down with me, listen and help. The friends that already know what to say, because instead of ignoring the obvious pain, & letting me  make a fool of myself by acting fine, the care enough to be there with me, talk it out no matter what their schedule is looking like. My mom that even if I am ok, will never let me rest until she is absolutely positive I am. The family and friends I can surround myself with. No matter what I have done, they still hold the Strongest “Love” in their eyes when they see “ME”. They allow nothing to stand in the way, of who they know me as. They are my life, my “Love”s, and what keeps me going each day.

In the past I may not have been so sweet. I am glad I now can “Cleary” see how important they are. But whether I realize now what I have, still they are going to be deeply missed if I ever lose them. But I am just glad I can let them all know before it is too late.

With that, make sure you always tell the ones you love, how you are feeling, instead of living behind a brick heart. Let them always know how much you appreciate them. although you may feel better at the time without saying it, out of anger, while “They still smile, They could be suffering from the hurt you could be causing, “You will be suffering from the “After pain,

Even though they might of always had a loving “Perspective’ no matter how many hurtful things you could say,

That “After pain will eat you away, because you never took the chance to make it “Clear’!

Live each day like it’s your last or someone else’s, Make sure you take the time to Make Up Before the times comes to Break Up!!!

Happy mothers day to all the mothers, & single fathers.

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