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Marital Argument Remedy

How to stop those arguments in a marriage before they get out of hand.

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This has been a long week for my husband and myself. We took a week off together to spring clean our home. Now for me spring cleaning means taking down curtains and blinds to wash them, removing and cleaning all the pictures from the walls, washing the walls, polishing furniture and doors and finally waxing all the floors.

To top that off since we only have every other weekend off, and our last weekend off it rained cats and dogs, we had yard work to complete. Our side patio was a mess and we had plants that would soon die if not planted.

To add to this list I have been working on post production for my book. There is a lot to having a book published, as I am finding out.

Then our dog Kole began to lose his hair, he has a bacterial skin infection. This is requiring medicated baths twice a week. We have gone though this with him before, it’s a Black lab thing.

While we have gotten everything done it has been a busy week and my husband and I have had quite a few arguments.

On Thursday we had our air conditioning serviced, and had just had a heated discussion before the arrival of the service technician. We have known Mr. Chandler the owner for several years and he is a good Christian man.

We joked with him that he needed to pray over us so we would not divorce before this week of spring cleaning was completed.

He laughed and told us about a ,” Marital Argument Remedy” his grandmother had passed on to him and his wife and he would pass it on to us.

The remedy goes like this, if you are married and having an argument stop and go into the bedroom. First remove all your clothing and then sit side by side on the bed. Now if the argument is really worth fighting about continue, but if it’s not then you will soon be busy working on your marital relations.

I have to tell you we tried this remedy and found it really works. Mr. Chandler’s grandmother was a wise women. This remedy works so well we highly recommend it to all married couples. In fact, we plan on having at least one good argument a week. Do you think I should try to patent it?

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  1. stryka66

    On May 10, 2010 at 4:00 am


    Wonderful !

  2. CHAN LEE PENG

    On May 10, 2010 at 5:12 am


    This was certainly a great idea and a wonderful remedy. Married couples can take this as a reference for a close bond. Clicked you “liked it”.

  3. Melody SJAL

    On May 10, 2010 at 5:46 am


    Wise womann indeed.

  4. Lord Banks

    On May 10, 2010 at 6:00 am


    Well it could work but not for us, I’ll say no more. Good article held my attention! hope the book deal goes well. LB

  5. abhishek40914

    On May 10, 2010 at 8:38 am


    great post

  6. martie

    On May 10, 2010 at 9:16 am


    My husband must know Mr. Chandler’s grandmother. His other remedy is to make me laugh. Do you know how hard it is to stay really furious when you are laughing?

  7. Starpisces

    On May 10, 2010 at 9:31 am


    hahaha…. but how if only 1 party wants to try this method, but the other still angry and don’t bother to try it?
    interesting post here, haha.
    :)

  8. Sourav

    On May 10, 2010 at 9:34 am


    That’s one great reason of fighting! Sounds interesting to me! :D

  9. Brenda Nelson

    On May 10, 2010 at 10:39 am


    oh naturally thought of by a man. A woman would have said the best way to end an argument is simply for the husband to say he is sorry!

  10. giftarist

    On May 10, 2010 at 5:26 pm


    Pretty interesting for me. Thanks for sharing this wonderful experience of yours.

  11. nobert soloria bermosa

    On May 10, 2010 at 7:27 pm


    i never heard of it before,,,im certain it’s effective..thanks Pam

  12. Ruby Hawk

    On May 10, 2010 at 9:15 pm


    Patent it Pam, you have a winner on your hands.

  13. VTech

    On May 10, 2010 at 10:07 pm


    Good Post

  14. zoeyclark

    On May 11, 2010 at 3:19 pm


    This is priceless. Yep, it is a shame you haven’t thought about it before;)

  15. Jenny Heart

    On May 15, 2010 at 7:30 am


    Pam this may help save many marriages. Great one!

  16. Moses Ingram

    On May 15, 2010 at 12:25 pm


    A great post and one that could reduce the devorce rate. My wife agrees and thinks we should argue at least once every week lol!

  17. drishti8

    On May 17, 2010 at 3:07 am


    Interesting post..

  18. fishfry aka Elizabeth Figueroa

    On May 17, 2010 at 3:37 pm


    Great idea, if you can both agree to go to the bedroom and remove ones clothes. Ever had a argument where you just had the need to keep it going…………….sure does not put me in the mood to remove my clothes. Its a great idea thou, I tell my kids and my husband, no matter how mad I am at them, I will always kiss and hug them and wish them a goodnight………..for we do not know what tomorrow holds.

  19. sara20

    On May 18, 2010 at 1:51 am


    Nice to read this piece.

    Keep writing more about it. It is really gracefully and very well written skill.

    Thanks for sharing.

    Cheers.

    Sara:

  20. bestone

    On May 20, 2010 at 10:45 am


    Thank you and hope for the best information that you will get to read articles and by similar embroidery please keep writing.

  21. Chris Stonecipher

    On May 29, 2010 at 11:43 pm


    I hate arguing with my wife. It feels like the world will come to an end but then we always make up. This is a great idea to get naked with our spouses but i think she likes to be left alone for awhile.

  22. Karen Gross

    On May 31, 2010 at 10:29 pm


    When I am mad at hubby, he invites me to punch him in the gut. I punch as hard as I can, which barely phases him, and then we laugh. Only, last time I guess I was a little more ticked off, and my punch landed a little lower.

    Your remedy sounds like a good plan if he is mad at me.

  23. meandu

    On June 22, 2010 at 5:43 pm


    Cute story! I can see how it would work nicely to stop an argument.

  24. Goodselfme

    On July 3, 2010 at 12:25 pm


    You have good ideas to put into a relationship when tempers fly. Thank you for the sharing of tips.

  25. bryeunade

    On September 3, 2010 at 5:04 am


    A good idea. I’ll keep this in mind and try to use it too. Thanks..

  26. dyon

    On April 11, 2011 at 11:51 pm


    It’s only make up sex! It is temporary at best.

  27. dyon

    On April 11, 2011 at 11:53 pm


    It\’s only make up sex! It is temporary at best.

  28. Daniel P. Eberhardy

    On July 26, 2011 at 7:04 am


    In marriage, a man and a woman offer themselves, in effect, as sacrificial victims to each other for life. Nakedness, to work as this article says, needs to express that commitment, or it’s apt to fail. Praying together about the impending conflict may work even better.

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