Marriages: Why So Many Fail

Well even though young I’m a very fast learner. Not bragging or anything I think I pick up very quickly on little and big things that go on in my life and in those around me. I try to put things to getter and make sense of things that go on in life itself.  I think everything happens for a reason whether good or bad and many people don’t take that in account. Well marriage is the topic for me today and with my life experiences I have come to a conclusion for why most marriages collapse and a solution. This is all based on my opinion and should you follow is your decision.

Marriage is a binding contract between the two parties that joins together their possessions, income, and lives which you already know. This has nothing to do with love first off but when marriage comes to mind, love is the first thing we think of. This should be because we should have love in order to marry one another. One thing I realize in a relationship is before we get married is that most individuals are not 100% happy. Being only 50% happy is not 100% and with that you will begin arguments, fights, cheating, abuse etc. This is what causes a marriage to fail. Most people overlook flaws in a partner which make them unhappy and get married to that partner any way. Bad idea. This is what makes marriages collapse. You can’t change someone. That someone has to change them self’s if willing. You can attempt to change them but if no progress is made get out the relationship because it will end up sour.

My solution to a avoid going through a sour marriage and divorce is look for the flaws in a person before time. Thing you don’t like attitudes, arrogance, abusive, etc are all shown before hand in that person. Spend a couple of years together to get to see everything and if you are not satisfied move on to the next person. Some people tend to show there bad ways in weeks or months and some in years. If you are not happy move on and believe it or not you will find Mr. or Mrs. Right in your life time if your willing to look and not to be tied down unhappily. There is special someone for everyone and that’s true. You can find that person if you go out and look. You will be happy and you will have a happily ever after.