Married Men Who Do Not Love Their Wife

People rush into marriage now as quickly as though they were just booking up a weekend away. Instead of thinking that they will be with that person for 50+ years if both live a normal healthy life they get married to someone they hardly know or who they are not compatible with or who they are not properly in love with.  Of course, the result of this is that they end up bored or unhappy.   It would be just as stupid to go into a job or move into a house when young and say that you will never move from that house or that job for the rest of your life and then wonder why you become unhappy.

Many people forget that if you choose your partner when only a young person then the odds are you will find someone you prefer and like a lot more when older.  This could mean you end up wanting to have an affair with this other person… if they agree to it… or that you become one of those people trapped in a state of miserableness because you do the right thing and do not cheat and sneak around,  or the other person quite rightly refuses to be your bit on the side.

Sex affairs are fine in fantasy they are quite different in real life.   If you are a man who is married and you are not having fantastic sex with your wife it is easy to think that if you meet someone else it will solve the problem. It does not.  THERE IS A REASON WHY YOUR SEX LIFE WITH YOUR WIFE IS RUBBISH.  Either you married the wrong person or you do not turn her on.   If you made this mistake with your wife you will probably make the same mistake with any other woman you meet in the future,  until you have sorted yourself out.

Married men who do not love their wife stay for all different reasons.  Usually they make excuses about how they must not hurt her as it would break her heart.  Yet they still would cheat if they could!!!  What they really mean is that they are staying because they cannot afford to leave and have two homes or because they could not see the children so much.  It is not out of any form of love or duty to their wife,  who they stab in the back when given the chance.

Most of them do not even see that if they do not communicate with their wife and discuss these things with her, and tell her how they really feel, then they are living with a total stranger.  And if this is how they go about their relationships they will always find their love life goes wrong.

When a married man falls in love with another woman  he thinks this is the answer.  Forgetting that a single woman with brains will not bother to date a married man, even if he loves her.  She can easily find a single man who sees her a lot more and treats her better.  If he has his eye on a married woman then she can find a single man if she wants to cheat on her husband, and that would suit her a lot better.   Unless he leaves his wife for the other woman she usually walks away or causes him problems.   She is not interested in a lonely, boring empty life just so that his life is better.  Tips for married men looking for an affair/mistress might be very helpful to you.

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