Men’s Top Lies: Do You Agree or Disagree?
by In gender-sensitive language, English speakers and writers are cautioned about the use of masculine nouns and pronouns especially in situations where the gender of their subject(s) is unclear or variable, or when a group to which they are referring contains members of both sexes.
The use of language that in any way shows a lack of respect for either sex becomes an issue especially in a gender sensitive society. Sex and gender distinctions become a controversy because both men and women are said to be equal.
Study shows that the key to a great sex life is communication: being honest with your partner as to what you want and enjoy. But let me share with you what other’s qualifying about men. Allegedly, some of these men who wanted to have free sex say:
- “I’m still very single.” – That is why perhaps some married person do not were their wedding rings. But take note that mere denial of marriage by either of them will not absolve them of their matrimonial relationship. Take note that there are girls who also deny about their marriage.
- “Let’s meet and talk in the hotel.” – The hotel is the usual secret place for unmarried couples to meet. They say, to keep their privacy, a man brings his girl friend to a hotel “just to talk in private.”
- “I’ll just take off your bra.” – cuddle and kiss their partners by taking off the bra with a guarantee for a girl that she will not be sexually abused.
- “I’ll just caress your warm body.” – A gentle way to have fun playing with her. It is only a foreplay that would last for a few minutes.
- “I will not let it in.” – While doing premature body contact; clothes slowly taken off, saying these words of assurance.
- “I will withdraw it.” – When a man is ready to move on to something more and is ready to take her over the edge, most men guarantees the girl to “withdraw it.”
- “You will not be pregnant.” – For most girls, pregnancy out of wedlock is a problem. But since it is already there; the excitement he could not control, this man will fake about withdrawal.
- “I will marry you.” – The amazing journey of a quick sexual encounter, a girl feels hopeless and uncertain. Although nervous, this man quickly pledges the girl to marry her.
- “I love you.” – You think you’re in love, and you have said “I love you” right away. But almost as quickly as we were professing our undying love, we were fighting; perhaps it is just the result of over-enthusiasm
Some men I’ve asked why they lie so much readily answered: “because we don’t think we’ve ever met a woman who told the truth ever in our life, and the biggest liars they ever met were girls that kept accusing men of always lying.”
But we have to understand that people lie and lying has nothing to do with gender, but lying in any way is a sin.
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Post CommentNA Staffieri
On May 6, 2009 at 6:35 am
Agreed that both genders are guilty of lying to get what they want. But lying doesn’t take away the notion of consent when it comes to sex.
Great article, Anne.
Joe Dorish
On May 6, 2009 at 6:35 am
Probably true in all societies. But don’t you think women learn quick?
Evelyn M Carter
On May 6, 2009 at 6:47 am
Lies big or small are wrong. Lies by man or woman are wrong. Sex, Gender and Lies may all combine but they Are three different things relayed differently by all of us. I enjoyed this interesting read. Life is something…
K Kristie
On May 6, 2009 at 7:34 am
Hmmmmmm…=D
skylite
On May 6, 2009 at 8:04 am
Agreed and nicely written !
Orbit1973
On May 6, 2009 at 8:06 am
I think it has some truth, even if I don’t have such experience sofar. i declare what my status is whenever I am asked to explain.
Anne McNew
On May 6, 2009 at 8:29 am
Hi everyone, thank you for quickly posting comments on this article.
My apologies, I just submitted a fix for those redundancy. It’s very awkward…But still I’m thankful for your support.
MMV Abad
On May 6, 2009 at 9:47 am
Nice article. I know a person who is very good at this
Dr Shalini Kapoor Kad
On May 6, 2009 at 9:47 am
how true n honest this piece is, I guess most will agree as we have been in one of the situations at one time or another.
OhSugar
On May 6, 2009 at 10:24 am
This a great piece for discussion. I have to agree with you that some folks have problems when it comes to using masculine nouns and pronouns, perhaps they don’t want to offend anyone.
Sheila M
On May 6, 2009 at 11:43 am
Both are equally as guilty ~ remembering back I think I have fallen for at least one of these ~ sheesh how could I have been so stupid?? Great article
QuinMonty86
On May 6, 2009 at 11:45 am
I think women lie as much as men. We just complain more when we get hurt than men do. We have learned fast how to use men just as much as they use us. And we are sneakier!!
kate smedley
On May 6, 2009 at 12:31 pm
I had a wry smile at some of these …like Sheila I’ve fallen for some of them in the past but learned quickly …it’s not exclusive to men though. Interesting article.
Lostash
On May 6, 2009 at 1:42 pm
I’m not quite sure what you’re trying to say with this piece if I’m honest? A lie is a lie, no question about that, and women are equally as bad as men. Not all men are like this though, and I feel that this is quite a negative article towards us. Everyone needs to be cautious, especially in a new relationship.
George W Whitehead
On May 6, 2009 at 3:38 pm
OK, so where was it that you were eavesdropping on me? lol
I guess all of you ladies have been told at least one of these at one time or another! Great piece Anne.
Catelin Hoover
On May 6, 2009 at 4:10 pm
Anne
Very interesting read. Lying is not gender oriented. It simply depends upon the moral values a person embraces.
Mrs M
On May 6, 2009 at 5:52 pm
Good article. I think some men could easily fall into being ones that tell these lies, however, some people out there really just don’t play such foolish games.
CHAN LEE PENG
On May 6, 2009 at 7:42 pm
Well write, but lying is not restricted to male. Female also seems to lie sometimes. Lying is very general, it’s not restricted by gender, race and etc.
Ruby Hawk
On May 6, 2009 at 8:24 pm
I don’t care for gender sensitive language. I had rather everyone say what they mean.
Jo Oliver
On May 6, 2009 at 8:39 pm
These are def some good ones.
Bick Parker
On May 7, 2009 at 12:49 am
Mmm … if I tell the truth … will you think I’m lying? I’ve never used any of the lies you’ve written about – honest! Men and women aren’t that much different when it comes to getting their own way on something, if you want it, go for it.
papaleng
On May 7, 2009 at 3:09 am
that was me 25 years ago.. LOL nice article.
Betty Carew
On May 7, 2009 at 7:43 am
Great article Anne the same lines have been used for a very long time, you’d think we would catch on by now lol. Excellent write and read
Fresh Writing
On May 7, 2009 at 10:12 pm
Hm…very interesting points here. I do agree in that everyone lies, but lying when it comes to sex is very bad indeed.
Nicely written article; very thought-provoking.
-Fresh Writing
Melody SJAL
On May 8, 2009 at 3:32 am
Interesting and very well-written.
marisolflamenco
On May 8, 2009 at 10:31 am
Interesting article
payge
On May 8, 2009 at 11:26 am
An interesting article to read.Lies can come from either gender and in many forms.But when you lie if it includes sex-thats crossing a very bad line.Ive heard a few of these lines,some I
didnt know existed.
nobert soloria bermosa
On May 8, 2009 at 7:28 pm
a worldwide research/survey should be conducted to determine which is which…lol,interesting topic my friend,
Peter Cimino
On May 9, 2009 at 2:39 pm
Interesting piece. I have never said any of this stuff, but I have sure been lied to a few times. It does for sure work both ways. But your points are well taken and valid.
S A JOHNSON
On May 10, 2009 at 10:48 pm
Granted, some naive women may be done over by these types of lies but really now, people lie because they can. People believe them because they want to.
Kimber777
On May 11, 2009 at 9:51 pm
Very well written discussion! I have heard some of those…
David Irvine
On May 25, 2009 at 5:52 pm
I agree, we all lie that’s why I rely heavily on body language, tone and pitch of voice. These tiny variables define truth from a simple neglect of someone else’s trust and loyalty. Nice read.
CutestPrincess
On May 27, 2009 at 11:12 am
haha… i knew it! i don’t believed anyone, i haven’t trust men!
Likha
On May 30, 2009 at 5:22 am
Once in a while, we meet men who value the truth, but the thing is, they are already taken.
fishfry aka Elizabeth Figueroa
On July 28, 2009 at 10:37 pm
Tricky little article you have there, Men lie but so do women. In todays world if someone is going to undo my bra, and I allow him, the I am just as guilty.
CA Johnson
On August 21, 2009 at 7:59 pm
Very interesting article. I really enjoyed it!
Somsri
On August 22, 2009 at 12:27 am
I agree that.Mind blowing….