Men and Women 3: How to Keep Going – Just be Romantic

They say, all is well that ends well. But why should we think about the end only? The question is how we can improve the quality of our life, especially within our own family all the way through up to this happy end.

Let’s inquire. Again this is only my personal experience, that is to say, I am going to describe what I have been trying to do to keep my relationships with my husband in the first place.

Let me start with the wisest quotation: “The greatest weakness of most humans is their hesitancy to tell others how much they love them while they’re alive.”

Now I do see it as my first consideration. Though I should warn you that it might not be as easy as it seems. Simple words don’t come easy when they are badly needed. Moreover, you should say simple “I love you” in such a voice which will be the sweetest for your beloved one. In the middle of the working day this message, either written or spoken, will no doubt, will break up the monotonous routine and make Him smile brightly!

On the whole, the idea is to make every day of your life as different from the other as possible, i.e. create romance around it!

Here are a few more ideas, which you can develop to make your relationships more precious.

1. Don’t be afraid to appear a freak.  I’m absolutely sure, that each of us is secretly dreaming to be involved in a kind of adventure, mystery, i.e. something extremely unusual and challenging. Even paying an ordinary compliment when the other doesn’t expect it at all can brighten up your family life.
2. Try reminding each other of your past by which I mean the first few months of your relationships. That may include role-playing the most romantic, happy, funny episode, which can possible open your eyes on your partner’s hidden qualities.
3. Make new friends and acquaintances easily, visit them and hospitably invite to your house treating them to all your specialties! You will soon find out that you will become nearly inseparable with your partner as you’ll see each other from a certain distance.
4. Discuss your future prospective, dream of happy things in order to build a “bridge” between your happy present and a much happier future together.
5. Find out at least one thing you are both mad about. It can be anything – a pet, a hobby, a place, a holiday and a child, of course so that you can both put into it a particle of your soul, thus get closely linked to each other.
6. Don’t try to seem an ideal couple in the eyes of others. Try to be ideal exceptionally for each other. Don’t you care for what people say about you! It’s your Love that counts in the end.

John Greenleaf Whittier once said, “Tradition wears a snowy beard, romance is always young”. As far as I know, beards are out of fashion nowadays, so you’d do better if you are romantic!

Good luck to your family and don’t forget to share your personal opinion!

Check this out too:

http://beyondjane.com/women/men-and-women/

http://socyberty.com/relationships/men-and-women-2-to-be-or-not-to-be-yourself/