Men and Women 4: Do We Need a Time-Out?

It’s one of the most common mistakes to think that He and She, Husband and Wife should always be together.

You may argue that it’s next to impossible nowadays bearing in mind our hectic lifestyles, when we are always short of time. But, to be honest, some of us are lucky (or rather not?) to spend plenty of time together, either at work or at home.

However is it correct from the psychological point of view?

Let’s consider a little.

Have you ever asked yourself, for how long you can look at your reflection in the mirror. I myself would answer – very often, indeed, but not always! It’s almost the same concerning the relationships. Sooner or later you will just become indifferent to each other as it’s no easy job to se the best in your partner. And then comes boredom. The killer of love.

Now, another crucial point.

Being together means sharing something. But your interests and preferences can’t totally coincide, can they? I bet each of you still has a certain potential to be realized, a certain creative side to be revealed. And I strongly believe it calls for some freedom.

Finally, the third point.

You are together because you want not only get, but give Love to your partner. What does it mean in practice? As I personally see it, you should make every day unforgettable and eventful for each other. You need adventure and romance, thrill and relaxation… Thus it’, highly important to fill yourself with new impressions and emotions which you get from the “outer space” and bring them into your sweetheart’s life giving all the Love in your heart…

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