Men and Women: Will We Ever Speak The Same Language?
by These days there seems to be a lot of confusion on why men and women don’t speak the same language when it comes to life in general, and the biggest question being asked these days is, will men and women ever speak the same language? The answer is simple and maybe not what you think it will be.
It seems that this question is being asked more and more these days. It’s posted all over the Internet, and some Writers have even gone so far as to write books based on this subject. It makes one wonder if the people asking this question will ever get their answers. Personally, I know we will never speak the same language and here’s why.
We aren’t even born, and our destinies are being planned for us. We have no say in what our parents decide will happen to us, be we be born a boy or a girl. There’s just no way we as children and eventually grown adults will ever speak the same languages as far as life is concerned.
When our parents know that conception has happened, right away most parents start planning on what they will call us if we are born a boy or a girl. As time progresses, and our sex is known, our destinies are pre-determined by the colors our rooms are painted, the clothing bought for us to wear, and the color of those clothes. Pink for girls, Blue for boys and that’s about the way it goes with none of us having any say in these decisions.
Our toys will be different, maybe robots for boys and dolls for girls and even though we are still under three or four years of age, we are already changing, and in our changing process we are drifting further apart.
Our parents were and are only following traditions that their parents set down for them when they were babies and later on in life, as adults they continue to hand down the same traditions that they had.
Girls will learn compassion, mother-hood, and many more things in life that boys won’t learn and it’s here that we separate, boys going one way in growing up, girls learning another way of life, different from what boys learn. Even at this point in our young lives, we aren’t talking the same language the only thing is we don’t know it. We only find out when we get older, maybe around five or six we start to pick things up from one another that we find different, but we are still too young to know what these differences are.
Boys will wonder what girls get out of playing with ovens and wearing dresses, and crying because a movie might have been sad. Boys won’t understand why their sisters don’t want to come outside and play in mud puddles, it just doesn’t seem to make sense to boys that a girl could possibly want to pass up this great opportunity to play in mud.
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