My Silly Friend

Hello, i have this friend let me describe him and see if he sounds familiar. A very good person has his own place,own car, very good job,35 years old and has no children (which is almost impossible in my neighborhood) but needess to say in this era of women complaining about “no good men” you would think this guy would be beating them off. Not the case, he has been dating off and on the same women for about 17 years here is a small list of what he has been going thru in no particular order

• Had a child by another guy during one of their many seperations
• pulled a gun on him
• moved ,got a new number and didnt give it to him
• told him to buy her a wedding ring then refused his proposal
• calls him only when she needs money
• accussess him of being gay because he has friends
• and doesnt have sex with him                                        

So basically i tell him and anyone else going thru this listen she  only wants u when she needs something, she obviously has someone else, you have to move on and find another woman because thats the only way to get over her,and point blank she doesnt love you or she is extremely bi-polar. The bottom line is this relationship is going to crash and burn because relationships are not 50/50 contrary to popular belief, they are 51/49 the trick is to be the 49%, which means you must not be the one who loves more, you  must be the one who is loved more.That insures relationship bliss for both sides