Nothing Can Make Him Stay
by Men and us.
There are times when we try so hard to keep a man with us, and we just don’t understand that there is nothing that can make him stay:
Getting pregnant with the illusion that he is not going to leave, is just that: an illusion.
Threatening of taking our own life will only work for a couple of times, and then what? Whether you go through with the suicidal or not, he will continue with his life; and most likely, will not remember who you are.
If you open into a sea of tears every time he tells you he is going to leave you; again it will only work for a couple of times and he will still leave you. Better yet, he will keep you as his free maid, lover and everything else that comes to mind; because anyway you are willing to put up with everything just to keeping him by your side.
The reasons above or any other one you come up with, will end up in the same thing: you being miserable. We need to learn to let go, and move on. Staying in the past will only hurt ourselves; and no one else. Every man that crosses our path is just a lesson more in our life; we must learn to see it like that, and not like a punishment of life. It’s not easy to get back on your feet, but it is possible.
Learn to love, value and care for your self; because if you don’t, you can not love anyone else…
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Post CommentLydia
On August 28, 2008 at 4:21 pm
Thats a real good article. Its very true, we women need to love and value ourselves first. When we do that men will learn to love and appreciate us. Amen to that
mayra
On August 29, 2008 at 9:07 am
Thanks. Hope all women in the world can open their eyes.
diany
On September 6, 2008 at 2:48 pm
I hope too.
steph
On July 1, 2009 at 10:51 am
hi every one the article is true but some times us woman are not ready to give up like in my situation my bf is moving from city and i dont want him to move out of city i love him too much but i dont know wat else to do then beg him not to go ! sooo we woman can just give up just like that