Object: Man. Tools: Listening

Woman that fall in love with a man at the sight of which you have a “lump in the throat” and “heart jumps out of my chest? To do is not easy, but possible.

Most men consider women chatterbox. And do not know that during the conversation the woman is able to mark out a lot. Examine the person to learn hands, to evaluate clothing. At the same time to control himself, his gestures, his smile. The man did not remember how much it was dressed lady. He comes to the general conclusion that “like” or “no.” So, dear women, use their “talkative” and call his lack of dignity.

Start the conversation in this vein, where people can feel their importance and like it, first of all, himself. We like people who, after communicating with whom we thought: “I made a good impression on him!”. Even if it is not. Interests of a person is sincere. Interesting to us for us no one.

The next step questions. This is the foundation on which you build your “castle”. Questions should not assume the simple answers like “yes” no. ” You need a detailed answer. Encourage him to any interesting topic. Express your admiration and wonder what you like the same things your views coincide, and if the conversation starts to wane – ask for more. In conversation avoid the straightness, not forcing events. Men secretive, so swim with the current conversation give a leading questions.
Be attentive to him and remember before you take something, you need something to give. Give your attention. What have you got to lose? Nothing.
Be brief. Reply to the question or say something, return him to the stage where he will continue to shine.

And now the ground.

when the subject adjusted, apply a very effective technique called “the phenomenon of migration.” Find out about the people to whom the object of your sighs had tender feelings. If any, to put the “plus” to his chosen one – he can love. This is important. Asking leading questions, you are pursuing the purpose to awaken in man a romantic, loving mood. In an interview, which we usually call “spiritual conversation”, the man reveals his tender feelings and unconsciously puts them on the listener, that is for you. Helping to recall stories of their love relationship, who live in the soul, you focus those emotions and transfer them to himself. This is true even if the person believes that feelings gone.

Naturally, the conversation should focus on the people to which a person treats gently and his warmest memories.

But there is a subtle point. His story can touch you, can cause feelings of jealousy, and you begin to lose control. Do not worry, even if his feelings are fresh. Remember to recover from old wounds more difficult than from new ones. Perceive the need to adequately heard. Time talking to you, you’re on the right track. No comment heard. Be patient and become a benevolent friend, willing to listen. Does not lead, leave your opinions to yourself, you will still be able to express it.

Your goal is to establish trust, which will open for you this man, his feelings, thoughts, and make sure that no mistake in his choice