On Letting Go and Moving on
by After falling and hurting, a wounded heart must let go and move on.
After the process of falling in love and eventually getting your heart broken comes the daunting task of letting go and moving on. It’s always easier said than done. But after all else fails, you have no choice but to pick yourself up from your fall lest you want to wallow in your misery.
Yes, your heart has been badly broken. Yes, your dreams have been shattered. GRIEVE! Cry over your sorry lot in life. You’re only human and can only endure so much pain. No one will condemn you for crying your heart out. They have no right to condemn you in the first place because they have no idea how much you’re hurting.
However, it has a limit. Will yourself to stop grieving. Focus on the painful fact that unlike most fairytales, real life doesn’t always have happy endings. There is more to life than just “happily ever after”. It’s only your heart that’s been broken. It’s just a piece of you. You’re still WHOLE. Let go of the painful memories that keep your heart from mending.
Again, it is easier said than done. But if you keep in mind that a perfect start doesn’t always promise a perfect ending, you’ll be enlightened. You can’t hold on to something that wasn’t destined to be yours in the first place. You can only cherish it for as long as you have it. Can only love it while you got it and that’s it.
The truth is, it’s not losing someone valuable that hurts like hell when you get your heart broken. What hurts is realizing that in the process of valuing someone so much, you forgot that you are special too. So now you have no idea where to begin.
But you are actually allowed two choices here: You either find the person you used to be and rise from your slump OR Lose that person completely and eaten alive by misery.
Time heals all wounds but the healing only starts once you allow yourself to be cured. REALIZE YOUR WORTH. Don’t think that you weren’t good enough for him. Instead, relish the fact that he wasn’t good enough for you. Surround yourself with people who value your worth. You still have YOU. Start your life all over again. It begins and ends with you.
Letting go and moving on starts with YOU.
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