One Sign That You Should Dump Your Boyfriend

Everything is romantic and flowery like in the movies for a while. That is what love feels like.. but trust me after a while it takes hard work to keep a relationship going, not love. Love forms the basis and you must place the pillars and make a complete construction so that you can live in a place called ‘relationship’. 

There is only one vital sign that means your so-called relationship is sliding. It is SILENCE.

1 – Silence does not speak a thousand words

Men can lie, but their behaviour can tell you the truth. It is true that men do not and cannot jabber like women. They do need some time to collect blank thoughts. Do not worry about the blank moments. Learn to identify when your man needs some time for himself. 

2 – Silence not accompanied by smile means trouble

Either he is suffering depression or is calculating some strategic move at work. But if his silence persists and he does not volunteer information about tension at work (like any self-respecting guy serious about taking the relationship forward will), don’t nag him. Ask him once and if he gives you a lame excuse, then observe him for a couple of days (at the max). Even after that if there is a grouchy expression, then you know what I am talking about.

3 – Silence means he has stopped listening

Much as annoying your conversation can be, if he does not listen to you, it means it is not worth it. Test him. Blabber something insignificant about going to your friends house next week for lunch (and that she invited him too) and test him. If he lets it pass, he didn’t hear you out. Forgive him once mentally and don’t make an issue out of it. And don’t test him with this if he has a bad memory. 

Remember he is not with you to hear what your friend wore and whose wardrobe had a malfunction. So just in case you have been speaking about the wrong things, don’t blame your guys for his silence.