One of my friends has shared his pain and gain of being committed. Though, t to share with you guys. I have written exactly the way he said the matter.

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“Oh God what was life I had, so free so relaxed, sometime I think why I said yes.

I am committed now and now I know the pain of being committed, and I miss my old single days very much.” He was in confused feelings.

He is from India and in India people follow arrange marriage more, family or family friends arrange some girl from their contacts and both girl and boy talk to each other and then if they find the connection they go ahead. He is one of them. And recently He found his girl and he is committed now.

This is the story of almost all tradition Indian boys and girls.

Though before, he was always committed but not with one girl, there were many and he had choices, whenever something wrong goes with one girl he just jump to other girl, and start to have happy time, and then after some days that girl comes back to normal trek, and again good time with her continue and so on.

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But being officially committed with one girl, man lots of time goes in just make the things right, and the quality time is very less. Let me tell you something about their previous life before they get officially committed.

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They are like free bird. Roams here and there, no restriction, nothing to worry, no burden, just all living the life at best, lots of girls and boys, night outing, long drives, one day Sonia then next day Natasha, Heaven. They don’t have to report anybody.

The best part is they can go and see many girls/boys for marriage and believe me once you get used to it you will have fun. There are many dump people you will come across and at the end of the process you will gain lots of experience.

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Basically it happens like boy goes to girl’s house to see her, he will sit in front of all family members and the girl will come with the tea or cold drinks to serve all. At that time boy has a glance over her and if he likes or girl likes him, further talk, quality lonely time with each other. Isn’t it fun?

So that all being single, what you get. Now lets look what being committed.

You have that girl, still you don’t know too much about her and you have to develop the relationship, man that’s pain in ***, It may happen initially that one of them or both would not be comfortable to talk to each other and that is like breaking a solid rock. They always try to please each other, making sure they wont make any mistake or accidentally they don’t hurt the other person’s feeling, thing goes on like this,

Now lets say something about gain side, then they had their first kiss, and then love begins and slowly all things get set. And then the situation becomes very relaxing. They found the life mate and someone they can care for die for. As per the research the time between, the day they committed and marriage is awesome, because there is so much excitement to meet each other, and the excitement is more if the boy and girl can’t meet often.

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And the statistics says that ratio of success between arrange-marriage and love marriage is very high if you go for arrange marriage. Though few things are there that is not answered. But that much risks all should take for great happy life.

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