Comments on: Pre Marital Sex

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Sat, 30 May 2009 19:52:31 +0000

@First poster

Commitment wears off fast. You’re in your little dream world, nowadays, stupid kids fall out of love faster than they fall in love. But I wouldn’t want to have an impotent 25 year old husband, if I had the choice.

By: Bertha

Bertha — Thu, 07 May 2009 13:55:05 +0000

i'm god.

in bed.

By: Naena

Naena — Sat, 25 Apr 2009 08:07:58 +0000

Dear Debra,

I know you disagree with this and so do I, but it does not give you the right to say that "those who have sex before marriage are sinners". First of all, we all sin everyday and according to the Bible each sin is the same, no greater than the other. And also, I believe that eversince Jesus died on the cross for our sins, we are not claimed to be "sinners", but good people who do bad things or sin.

You also mentioned in the same sentence that we aren't following God if we have pre-marital sex. But are we following God if we judge one another about "their" sins and not even thinking about the fact that we sin too?

By: RiSHABh

RiSHABh — Sat, 11 Apr 2009 09:24:27 +0000

NiCE 1 …- ANDY_N…… cOOL….

By: Cinderella

Cinderella — Thu, 02 Apr 2009 00:48:40 +0000

I have to write a premarital sex paper for school..Im not sure what i want to do yet..i am not a vergin but i am still young. I have thoughts about this subject…still i wander if god is mad at me for being so yung and having sex..i feel as if im in love though..what should i do??

By: ilovesex

ilovesex — Mon, 23 Mar 2009 13:19:50 +0000

sex is good
its in the bible
SEX IS OK
i love sex
very much

anyone wanna talkk?!

By: norah

norah — Sun, 22 Mar 2009 18:31:31 +0000

very true, sex is not the only element to keep a marriage happy and strong but yes u need to have good sex for good relationship, by my true experience, a man emotionally attaches himself if and only if the woman trusts him and surrenders herself to him..that makes him respect her and trust her for life..every man may not think like this but to certain extent it is true …and once a couple are physically satisfied they will put their effort to make the marriage work..
and i don’t think pre-marital sex is wrong but our society has mad it look like its a sin..it has been practiced since a long long time but people then..never opened up now the generation is liberal and talks about it…thats the only difference

By: Mrs. Jenkins

Mrs. Jenkins — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 20:01:22 +0000

And Beth, I totally agree with you. If you’re picking up strangers and old friends just for a one night sex fling, then I feel you shouldn’t be sexually invovled at all; however, if your heart is in the right place and you’re ready to comment yourself to one person (rather it lasts or not-at least you’ve tried) then I don’t frown upon it. Your body makes a commitment just like your heart and mind does. Just like you’d be careful with your heart, you should be careful with your body.

By: Mrs. Jenkins

Mrs. Jenkins — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 19:58:37 +0000

I agree with the article to a certain degree. I feel that if both people in the relationship are virgins, how can they know if it’s bad or not? I feel that if you’ve waited this long, then you can definitely wait until the honeymoo. Now, I do feel, by me already have engaged in sexual activity, that my fiance and I couldn’t possibly wait until marriage now because we’ve already experienced the pleasure. So, yes, if you have had sex, I do believe that your curiosity wouldn’t allow you to get hitched without having sex, but I do feel that you’ve only had sex once, or never, than you would not miss out and can resist until marriag. But again, everyone is entitled to their own opinion.

By: debra

debra — Wed, 18 Mar 2009 15:06:00 +0000

sex before marriage is bad because you are not following god you are sinners if u do so