Pulling Off The Perfect Latin Charm

We all have a stereotypical image of the French, Spanish or Italian man with the natural, swept back hair and dark tan. They seem to drive women crazy with an air of refined charm and character. Surely this is an image worth possessing so let’s examine how to pull of the perfect Latin charm.

Its in the eyes and smile

There is simply nothing more charming for any woman than a man who looks her in the eyes with a natural smile during conversation. Maintaining this consistently is the key to success and the conversation will become more and more enticing. Keep eye contact soft and warm and ensure your conversation matches – you are not trying to wake her up so avoid sudden erring and voice intonations.

This all has an enticing and charming effect. In replicating a scene from a Parisian restaurant, in which voices are kept down to keep conversations private, you will be able to draw a woman closer with what seems to be the power of seduction.

Latin men are able to pull this off more easily than English men for one very simple reason. Their languages, with the exception of Italian, are spoken on the same level with no stresses and only attractive sounding accents. This introduces a minor quantity of tension and mystery as well as intimacy. The eye contact is also a feature of Latin cultures in which communication isn’t entirely verbal. A natural smile made during eye contact shows appreciation or enchantment, thus communicating on an entirely different level. There is essentially no better way of showing affection whilst maintaining a confident air of masculinity.

Let’s not forget what we smile with either: It is a feature of romantic languages (those descending from Latin such as French, Spanish or Italian) to speak with the tongue and lips rather than with the throat. The Germans aren’t renowned for being prolific lowers for a reason and their language is full of abhorrent sounding noises made from the back to the throat. The use of the tongue to pronounce words makes them sound hugely more attractive and is of course slightly suggestive, although I’m not advising you to conduct your bar-talk with a distastefully flappy tongue.

It’s being tall, dark and handsome

Unfortunately we cannot all be exceptionally tall and browned to perfection like a soufflé from the oven of Jean-Christophe Novelli, but we can make a huge improvement. Having healthy looking skin and hair will made an immediate good impression. Forget the numerous creams and treatments, there is only one secret to this – get your five a day. Include anti-inflammatory fruits and vegetables such as apples and eat up your greens – the more vibrant your dish, the more vibrant your appearance.